Thanks a lot for taking the time to reply! I apologize for having a "knot in my brain" about this. I have now had the time to read most of this whole exchange and understand better. Also I realized that what was confusing me was not on a Lemmy server. I was under the impression that the fedipact meant that my other server (Neuro different.me) will not federate with thread but will also defederate from servers who federate with Thread. But that doesn't seem to be the case so what I don't understand now is: if my server defederated Thread but remains federated with a server that didn't defederate Thread... My data could still land on a Thread server?
Thank you! I thought it was but then I have been seeing toots from instances that I'm not supposed to be able to see (or so I thought) so I wasn't so sure I understood the whole thing anymore. Also, I don't understand the difference between defederated and fedipact 😬
Some of us are not savy and don't know how to do that.