Having some room to be yourself could improve the relationship. I remember when I moved out of my moms house, I stopped feeling anxious about constantly having to disrespect my boundaries and that made our interactions a bit better.

Everyone has a limit, anything beyond that will turn into resentment.

Can you install bank apps?

Done! https://github.com/LemmyNet/lemmy/issues/5188

This kind of filrter would be very helful if it was built into the site. Being able to block words/subjects.