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On a scale of 1-10 how perverted would you rate your own sexuality?
    1. I've done and enjoyed stuff I think most people haven't, and a slap is still faster than a kiss and none of my fantasies are about plain sex, but I enjoy plain sex every day, and counting down I think that:

    10 is people who want something that will kill them or someone else.

    9 is people who want something that would land them in jail, or literal fetishists who get off on something that doesn't include what most of us think of as sex, and only that.

    8 is people who need something other than plain sex or can enjoy things that most of us find too gross

    7 is people who identify mostly as their kink but can enjoy sex without it

    Which would leave me at 6. I think way more people are in the 1-5 group than the 6-10 group, it's not an even distribution. If you are asking where I'd land in the general population of women, that would probably be a different answer.

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    What do you use as masturbation material?
  • Imagination, most of the time. Written D/s M/f erotica, or occasionally MF/f, written from either perspective, the rest of the time. I enjoy a lot of the pictures on here but not in a way that inspires masturbation. Just enjoy smut in general, interesting and keeps a slow burn, right?

    Never really seek out porn videos.

  • What is the oldest viable photograph to chip a coin into the wishing well in tribute?
  • I do think the other focused sex is possible (I get this with my husband because I don't have to worry, it is balanced, I get back what I give) but likely not as much fun to watch - for me personally the power play stuff M/f does get me the quickest response, doesn't even have to be explicitly sexual. Just the mismatch in physical attractiveness between the men and women is jarring enough to undo that response. Gay male porn has good looking guys and plenty of rough stuff but I don't watch enough of any of it to know any names.

    That Venus, while she is not my niche, I do think plenty of guys (at least those I know) do still focus so much on T&A that they often don't care much what is between them somehow, or actively prefer plush built women.

  • What is the oldest viable photograph to chip a coin into the wishing well in tribute?
  • Well the guys in straight porn are nearly uniformly unappealing from my childhood through my middle age and still are for some reason I cannot explain (Manuel Ferrara a notable exception, and Lemmy's Nodachi). A thousand years from now? Nobody current, styles change. Oldest that I think someone might still like? Venus of Willendorf.

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    Am I a cuckold if I like watching my wife have sex with women while they both humiliate me?
  • My husband loved to watch me with other guys, but wasn't into humiliation (except from the other side, he did bull for some couples).

    I think it's the humiliation that makes it cuckolding kink, not whether it's same sex/opposite sex. So yeah if you like them making fun of you for getting each other off better than you could, it's cuckolding.

    Without the humiliation, just voyeurism I would say. Same as if she liked seeing you get railed by some guy and enjoying it, but not feeling anything except happy about it.

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    What interest would be a "confession" in a new relationship?
  • Yeah I would need to know if a guy is submissive because that wouldn't work for me, wouldn't judge you for it at all just not good match. Just spent too many years fighting my own nature, I am not doing that for any guy anymore. So I think it's good to get out of the way, the girls who are into it will love it, probably be a relief to them.

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    What naughty fun have you been up to this fortnight? (Aug 19th - Sep 1st)
  • Congratulations, and welcome to womanhood! On the boobs, and the "yet", we don't all get 'em. I am a woman who has always lived in a female body and at no point in my life could I fill a boob- focused shirt, not even while nursing. It's not a requirement, you can look very feminine with tiny tits, and very sexy, just gotta choose the right outfits.

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    Losing a fetish: Do you think it's possible?
  • I think most people's sexuality does evolve over time, and kinky or open-minded people might go through phases of really being into something.

    But a fetish, like something that develops early and the person needs it? I'm not sure. That seems like asking if I could stop needing to be heterosexual, more than asking if I could give up wanting to be dominated.

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    What do you like in porn, but not in reality?
  • Hmm, in written erotica I can enjoy more masochistic stuff than I can enjoy in real life (I do enjoy some but too much will pull me out of the moment) but in videos pretty much enjoy what I do like, or have liked.

    Like Schimitar also said - I do also enjoy younger people in video, they are attractive on screen but not IRL, not even in looks do I find them sexually attractive, only good looking guys close to my age do that for me (though that 'close to' bubble is certainly wider than it was, it's still not very big).

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