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  • Not bad. I'd say end on a supportive note if you still care about them as a person. Like if you would still be there for them through this process just say something like, "I'll still be here to support you as you grow." but if you won't, don't say that.

    In the corporate world, I was taught about the "shit sandwich". You start with the good (fully support you coming out, being true to yourself), add the shit in the middle (I'm straight and not into women), then add the other slice of bread (I'll support your true womanly self along the way). But like, keep the shit in the middle instead of ending on your own thoughts--you can have your thoughts but just end on the supportive part.

    Just like... My opinion, man.

  • Makes sense to me. It's an off my chest thing, no? Someone just releasing their thing into the wind.

    If you're lonely but afraid and you turn to a chatbot but acknowledge it's just a chat bot. I understand. I get it. Loneliness sucks. If that's the coping mechanism then that's fair. I feel that.

  • Whatever data profile they already have on your can be obscured to make it useless vs them probably trickling in data.

    Think of it like um...

    Having a picture of you with a moderate amount of notes that are accurate, vs having a picture of you with so much irrelevant/inaccurate data that you can't be certain of anything.