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Anon googles his name
  • I once got an email in another language but happened to recognize it since my grandmother used it regularly. So I ran it through one of those translator services, and it was pretty mundane 'how are you and your kid's type stuff.

    Ended up writing back via translator text, turned out they already spoke English though. Seems her brother has the same name and email as me but with a different provider and she just mixed up the domain.

    I occasionally get random spam that I think was meant for him since it's all localized.

  • Matt Gaetz Is the Best Possible Outcome for Attorney General
  • It's a bit like the logic of why Trump may be better than De'Satan, he's a reckless destructive arse, but at least he's stupid too.

    Problem is though now they have a pile of people behind that 2025 doc to make up for their own lack of knowledge...

  • St. Paul launches Minnesota's first electric firetruck
  • I love the idea of electric vehicles and all, but the amount of stored battery power to run something like this being used to spray a bunch of water sounds scary. Hoping the waterproofing in the battery compartment is some next level work.

  • Kid talks
  • This one never had lunch at a public school in the 80s/90s...

    Also a common thing at mine, oranges cut to a size where you could put them in your mouth to wear like a boxing mouth guard. Called them orange smiles...

  • Anon gets a blood transfusion
  • Huh, small rabbit hole there, wasn't aware there was a special baby blood type. So basically someone who has the luck to have dodged what sounds like a super common virus all their life gets to have special uses for their donations.

    https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/cmv/symptoms-causes/syc-20355358

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  • I don't know about the 'so shallow', that walks pretty boldly into incel speak generalizations. The part about the imbalance of likes rings true though. At one point an app I ventured onto had thought it was a good idea to make a visible marker on a profile of how many people liked them.

    So as I'm going along it happened to try and match me with someone I know. So I messaged her for a laugh about it, and she said she had just joined a couple weeks back, boredom or some such. In the couple months I was there got something like a dozen requests, all from women in India or Phillipines, my guess they were hired by the company to help keep guys on since it was a fairly small place.

    She on the other hand had a couple hundred already. Now admittedly she's plenty attractive, so that helps of course, but the number difference is crazy. At that point there needs to be some fast-call rejections to just have some reasonable number to look at in depth.

  • Republicans baffled after Trump picks ‘reckless’ Gaetz for attorney general
  • The guy has been promising hellfire, retribution , and chaos from the start.

    Shocked Pikachu

  • Trump picks hardliner Mike Huckabee as US ambassador to Israel
  • No, this was supposed to be the outcome that saves Palestine, they must have things mixed up somewhere...

  • Do not give into the fear and despair that Trump wants you to have. Fight anywhere and everywhere
  • Learn a lesson from progressives, it's been almost 20 years since we've been happy about a presidential election. That's never made us stop voting, it's never stopped us from working on the next election, and it sure as shit hasn't stopped any of us from complaining.

    At this point I hardly know what title to apply to who any longer, but for a large part those claiming the title of progressives where the loudest bunch clamoring to vote third party or stay home.

    I consider myself lower-midfle class, not poor, certainly not rich. I vote to support school levies and public good works. I say tax the hell out of the ultra rich. Take a major chunk of our military budget and put it to Medicare and free college. All the same kinds of things these progressives ask for.

    Yet when I say Kamela is the best realistic choice out there in this election it gets people all worked up saying I'm not better than some red hat looking to do evil in the world.

    Why? This country is simply not going to turn into something resembling a Scandinavian semi-socialist country in one fell swoop.

  • Sustainable building effort reaches new heights with wooden skyscrapers
  • It's not unheard of to make some pretty impressive structures of wood, I'm thinking of some of those big pagodas in Asia that have been around for who knows how long. That said thought does have a lot of significant challenges with fire being right up there. I can't fathom how they would deal with things like lightning. Lightning rods exist but is that enough to not explode wood the same way a struck tree does?

  • Stars
  • Well these guys from Super Mario Galaxy would probably look pretty round from the side I guess.

  • Sustainable building effort reaches new heights with wooden skyscrapers
  • Is steel considered bad now? I would think the larger concerns from buildings would be all the plastic and fiberglass type components rather than the steel or concrete structures themselves.

  • Anon doesn't tip
  • Here's another part of the equation, the owner gets enough of a share of the business profit where they can buy a new house, expand to multiple locations, buy new cars, etc.

    The extra couple bucks an hour per employee is a tiny drop in the cost pool per business operational hour compared to that. They could perfectly well keep prices the same without paying sub-minimum wages by taking a smaller cut themselves.

  • ‘We Know Project 2025 ... We Created Contingency Plans’ | NY AG Letitia James ready to lead resistance to new Trump administration
  • The one real lever the Democrats have fed really is the filibuster in the Senate, and they damn well better learn to use it with the ease the Republicans have over the past couple decades.

    The AGs can make a show at the state levels, but with the SCOTUS stacked as it is trying to sue for anything is theatrical at best.

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    This Time We Have to Hold the Democratic Party Elite Responsible for This Catastrophe
  • Obama inherited the result of Clinton's poor financial decisions on the housing market passed to resolve the issues from Reaganomics.

    Obama inherited a landscape where 8 years of Bush had deregulated the banks to the point where they were giving mortgage loans underwater from the start to anyone with a pulse which lead to the 2008 collapse.

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    A gentle reminder to not blame your allies today. The only person you should blame for Harris's loss is Kamala Harris (and maybe Joe Biden).
  • So really this one person on the web who took a pic and said that someone told them this was totally true?

  • Remember, remember the fifth of November
  • The historical bit is just looking at things in a longer term context. It's a challenge for people, particularly at a younger age, to consider things in a view that goes beyond a single lifetime. In the past roughly 100 years we have gone from 'man will never fly' to being able to have this conversation on servers across the globe. Women getting a vote. Schools and entire societies being segregated by race. From as recent as my youth when being gay was a punchline to the LGBT community largely being not only accepted but actively supported.

    There are losses here and again of course, but in a grand scheme view society has made notable progress. Maybe just a bit of frustration over the recent weeks with the 'nothing ever changes' mantra that seems so popular.

  • Remember, remember the fifth of November
  • Cheney, for as much of a tool as he may be, at least hasn't shown himself to be fully engulfed in the maga cult and recognizes that allowing Trump into power is a legitimate threat to the entire system. It's less of an endorsement of Harris and more a rejection of Trump.

    Edit: To touch on the 'eventually' aspect. I don't want it to sound like an excusing of the slow pace of change in our modern world, but put into context that the USA is, by global comparison, a young nation. Look at the time spans that nations in Asia or Europe have existed by comparison and the length of time it took to change their ways, often through drastic social upheaval. In comparison the gains in social equalities here have come at a rapid pace in the past century. For a place founded in violence and oppression where it was originally codified law that only white landowning males where of consequences we've made some notable improvements in the span of a few generations. As it stands today we're in a space where there are people legitimately clamoring for a second civil war due to the inability to find consensus on any number of issues. So many things that are common sense to the rest of the world are considered alien here, deemed 'un-american'. As we move along the road people come around to these 'radical' ideals, but it often takes a generation for them to become the norm.

  • Updated Trick-or-Treater log, Excel
  • Must live on a busy street, most of those would be multi year totals around here.

  • Ally in training...

    Hey all,

    So I'm looking to take an active step here to understand better some things that my straight/white/cis/middle-aged male brain has had a tough time wrapping itself around, particularly in the gender identity front.

    I'm working from the understanding of physical sex as the bio-bits and the expressed identity as being separate things, so that part is easy enough.

    What's confusing to me though is like this. If we take gender as being an expression of your persona, a set of traits that define one as male, female, or some combination of both then what function does a title/pronoun serve? To assume that some things are masculine or feminine traits seems to put unneeded rigidity to things.

    We've had men or women who enjoy things traditionally associated with the other gender for as long as there have been people I expect. If that's the case then what purpose does the need for a gender title serve?

    I'll admit personally questioning some things like fairness in cis/trans integrated sports, but that's outside what I'm asking here. Some things like bathroom laws are just society needing to get over itself in thinking our personal parts are all that special.

    Certainly not trying to stir up any fights, just trying to get some input from people that have a different life experience than myself. Is it really as simple as a preferred title?

    Edit: Just wanted to take a second to thank all the people here who took the time to write some truly extensive thoughts and explanations, even getting into some full on citation-laden studies into neurology that'll give me plenty to digest. You all have shown a great deal of patience with me updating some thinking from the bio/social teachings of 20+ years back. 🙂

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    And f*ck this guy in particular...

    Or, when you get a sudden windfall inheritance from on high.

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    ShellMonkey Monkey With A Shell @lemmy.socdojo.com

    Some dingbat that occasionally builds neat stuff without breaking others. The person running this public-but-not-promoted instance because reasons.

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