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In praise of SF’s star transgender food critic: With cake pops and donuts, Lilly Contino delightfully educates about her transition
  • Oh, it's her! I remember seeing her video of the incident in the cheesecake factory. I'm so happy that she's continuing. Not only that I love that she's using her platform to push some education about trans people, though certainly it's not her responsibility to do so. :)

  • is anyone else tired of heteronormativity?
  • We stopped punishing left-handedness. As an example: children used to be taught only how to write with their right hand, and using the left hand would result in punishment -- such as the hand being hit with yardsticks or the child being verbally abused -- until the child forced themselves to write with their right hand.

  • is anyone else tired of heteronormativity?
  • It's not that this instance is meant to be an echo chamber, it's that it's meant to be welcoming, inclusive, and queer friendly. Saying that we're over-represented, ackshually, isn't really contributing to the discussion other than to tell us that our lived experiences of being under-represented are wrong. It implies that a statistical/percentage-based over-representation of a minority group is a somehow a bad thing. Less charitably, it sounds awfully similar to being told to sit down, shut up, and be happy with what we've got.

  • is anyone else tired of heteronormativity?
  • Oh, I by no means think that other minority groups are more well off when it comes to representation.

    I'm just coming at this from my own personal lens, being well aware that any representation of trans folk as normal would have gone a long way for me as a child. So that's what I advocate for, but by no means do I feel we need to tear others down to get where we need to be.

  • is anyone else tired of heteronormativity?
  • Whether or not that stat is true, I don't think that minority representation should be accurately reflected based on the percentage of the population the minority represents. Just as an example, if we're talking about television shows, and let's just throw out a number that there are 100 major characters across all of the major networks/most watched shows. That would mean all LGBTQ+ representation is contained to 5 characters.. The chance of any one non-invested viewer seeing those characters becomes minimal -- which means that both cishet folks aren't getting exposed to minority representation (something that helps normalize us), and LGBTQ+ folks aren't getting exposed to minority representation (something that helps our own confidence and mental health).

  • is anyone else tired of heteronormativity?
  • Yeah, these replies are not at all what I expected to see coming into this thread. When did we decide that this is enough representation, and why did no one ask me?

  • Is This the Weirdest Ad in American Political History?
  • What the everloving fuck was that ad, holy shit. Seriously, that's a political ad? Supposed to make us like the guy?

    Well, no, I suppose it's supposed to make people like me afraid. And I suppose on some level, yes, I'm very afraid for myself and for the country in general if Desantis somehow gets his way and wins the presidency.

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