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Is it just me or are 9-5 hours naturally the most stifling?
  • I feel you. I actually liked nights, but the burnout is real. I'd have trouble sleeping during the day, and had a horrible sleep schedule trying to keep up my personal life and still work nights

  • Is it just me or are 9-5 hours naturally the most stifling?
  • I liked nights as well! I used to work 11-7 for some shifts, and while it was still a little lonely to go to work while people were heading to bed, I still had the whole day to do things if needed. It got me into the bad habit of just staying up for 24 hours if I wanted to do things in the evening though

  • Is it just me or are 9-5 hours naturally the most stifling?
  • Ooh I didn't think about it like that - but then again I was a bit of a homebody even in my 20's lol

    Definitely depends on your social circle then: my group of friends were mostly 9-5 and did stuff together in the evening, so it felt like I was always missing out.

  • Is it just me or are 9-5 hours naturally the most stifling?
  • I consider second shift to be worse - I worked 3-11 for awhile and its just depressing. You wake up and can do things, but you're just waiting to go to work. When you get out, it's pretty late and most people are going to bed.

    9-5 allows me to have my relaxation time at the end of the day, along with everyone else. Any other shift feels lonely, and like you're off-sync from the rest of society.

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  • 100% with the people saying to get into a hobby to meet people. You're guaranteed to connect at some level. Gaming as a hobby actually makes meeting people pretty easy, if you don't mind starting out as long distance relationships

    I met my partner of 8 years on World of Warcraft!

  • What is the role of games critique?
  • Of course! I'm not saying reviews are pointless, just that it's ok to dislike a critically acclaimed game, or find value in a game isn't as well received.

    If a game looks interesting, less than stellar reviews aren't going to stop me from buying it, but it might make me wait for sale.

    Ultimately, your game experience is entirely your own.

  • What is the role of games critique?
  • Second this! I appreciate game critics and routinely factor their opinions into whether I'll buy a game sooner rather than later. But sometimes there are imperfect games you connect with, and 10/10 games that you don't mind missing.

    Even in terms of art: it's helpful to read a critic's impression on an art piece, but it's also worth it to experience it yourself and form your own opinions.

  • Do you have a sibling? What is the relationship like?
  • I'm the oldest. I have a younger sister and brother.

    We're all close and extremely comfortable with each other, but they're closer with each other than me, given their closeness in age.

    I don't live at home with them anymore, but our relationship always feels natural and picks up where it left off even after being away for so long. I think we've been fortunate in that we've never felt to the need to compete with each other, and I think of them as a constant in my life that that I can always count on

    Edit: removed some age info

  • What do you think of Bobby Flay ?
  • I watch a lot of food shows, and he always comes across as a bit douchey and arrogant - but idk how much of that is a personality for TV.

    I went to Bobby's Burger Palace once though, and it was pretty good!

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  • I don't know if I have ADHD, but I struggle with this as well! Sometimes I'll write a message/email and there's a paren after every other sentence.

    Lately I've been making an effort to substitute with a semicolon or bridge the thoughts with a dash:

    "I'm thinking this - but I also think this."

    Unsure if that's a correct usage of punctuation, but I feel like it helps the sentence feel more focused and an expansion of the thought, rather than a random segue (especially with work)

    Edit: realized that I had broken my own rule seconds after posting

  • Adulation of A Pale Horse
  • I knew this was AccidentalRenaissance but I still did a double take at the horse. Something about the lighting makes it look slightly "textured" like a painting. Beautiful shot!

  • What is something really stupid you purchased that turned out far better than expected?
  • An oversized poncho cape from the local Goodwill. It was woven in different shades of blue and while I'd never wear it outside, I've used it as a wearable blanket at home for a few years now.

    I found out it was actually hand made, and costs 300+ USD from the original shop. Bonus points, I feel like a wizard when I wear it

  • Reddit moment!
  • Now that I think about it, maybe they always have been, sort of? The earliest memes I remember are the rage comics

    Though, I feel like "meme" = funny relatable thing nowadays.

  • Middle schools brutal
  • I swear, kids are the cruelest at that age. I ate lunch in the bathroom stall a few times in my first week of middle school because it was better than being in the cafeteria

  • The "just google it" mantra has probably held back quite a lot of interesting conversations and debate
  • Yeah, I know what you mean. Its a hard habit to break out of though - I always feel like I should exhaust other resources before asking questions.

    When I ask things without looking it up first, it feels like I'm not doing my best to solve my own problem before "bothering" others

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