growing_search @ growing_search @lemmy.world Posts 2Comments 7Joined 3 wk. ago
How are Americans so outgoing and extroverted and how can I become the same?
Oh yeah I miss those times of Omegle. I used to do that all the time with a friend but I was only able to do it while being drunk lol, intoxicated it's no problem for me.
Are you sure? I've never seen anyone nearly as shy/socially awkward as me from the US.
Do you have any tips on how I can improve social skills?
I wish I could fake it but I literally have no clue how to. I don't have the slightest idea how to behave extroverted in public and even if I would try to do it I would look even more awkward since I'm so insecure and it would seem very fake and weird (and I don't wanna traumatize people with that level of awkwardness). The only place I'm able to be confident is when I'm on my own or I'm with good friends.
I guess it's good there's this requirement because I think it's a very valuable and important skill. And sadly no one ever taught me this cause my mom always used to do the talking and managing for us when we were kids and that made me very shy and insecure.
I decided to make a new account to post this
I decided to make a new account to post this