360 is for sure entering retro territory

liberal crime squad

you're mostly identifying quirks of capitalism. you need dialectical materialism. cops and judges are straight up agents of capital and are the arm of the state which exerts its monopoly on violence. they are more or less all bad people by definition and your enemies. doctors under capitalism act as gatekeepers of live saving medical care and profit off people's need for it. also usually from privileged backgrounds so lacking empathy and likely your class enemy if they own their own practice. another unsavoury bunch. teachers generally are better people with at least some kind of noble goals but the school system under capitalism is more akin to prison and is inherently abusive. individual teachers can't exactly change the system much from the inside so a lot of them end up perpetuating the cycle of it.

it seems like that is a definition you have settled on because you can't bring yourself to validate the fact you did pass. you are bullying yourself unfairly, I know how much that sucks and it's a hard habit to break but please u gotta try. people rarely focus on strangers and interrogate their gender... it's a split second decision the cisnormative brain makes. you did pass! you can pass! i really want you to see this!

thank you for sharing:) radical acceptance is wild lol I remember straight up hating the concept when it was first introduced but now i rly see how valuable it is. it's hard as shit though.

two of my piercings are acting up and being really annoying im making an appointment to go get them looked at, I feel like it might be a mystery metal allergy issue because my other piercing that i got from a different place is very stable in comparison. hoping i can get it sorted out this week because it's very frustrating grrrrrr

passing at a glance is passing. urge you to try not to twist facts to invalidate yourself like this, i know it's hard<3

glad i could share comrade. it's something i'd be happy to potentially effortpost more about, it's one of the things that really stuck with me from my one round of DBT (therapy that actually works for people like me? :o) and i think even a passing understanding of it can rly benefit a lot of folks

i more or less managed to kill the concept in my head by doing the litany against passing or something. im not sure how. i first want to acknowledge it was easier for me than its gonna be for many binary trans folks cause im very content looking like a kinda androgynous gremlin and fine with normies seeing me as a confusing queer or whatever. i kinda relish those reactions. back when i cared more, realising a whole lot of cis women wouldn't "pass" if i applied the scrutiny i was applying to myself earlier in transition helped. also talked about this on here a tiny bit before but getting the fuck off twitter so i'm not allowed look at timelines posted by beautiful onlyfans models who look good for a living has like, all but cured my body dysmorphia. it's just a negative behaviour that i had to cut out. i still get dysphoria days but am wildly more comfortable in my own skin now on average.

sorry if it doesn't really answer your question, for something like that you need to try to practice radical acceptance and understand it's an ongoing process that needs active renewal not a binary switch. there is no silver bullet and it is really hard. but also some of your comments on here have indicated you do pass at least now and then. and you are tiny which is a huge boon if you want to pass. so you may be framing it in a bit of an overly negative way to start with.

i keep my main machine (fedora) updated is the weird thing lol. think I've been spoiled by KDE + GUI package management, could be time for a change on my laptop

i wait months between running sudo pacman -Syu on my laptop 😎 it's probably fine. if it borks i just get to install a new os which is fun anyway

yeah this is one of the few nice crumbs off the table we get in the EU. still get some spam texts when data breaches happen and stuff but it's illegal for any company to share or sell your number without your explicit permission

I'll give it a go, ty for help anyways

do you use the limit to 2GB option? I have tried using it and still got the error consistently with certain repacks

from the repack

right, i'm a fool for expecting spotify to give me accurate information, thanks lol. that makes it even funnier

didn't pinkerton come before in the 90s? yeah that's mostly what's made me stay away lol. blue album is Weezer enough for me

oh shit it's an actual new remaster + extra stuff? will have to listen later. still one of my favourite albums despite the obvious issues... although i never did get into much of their other stuff.