I'm completely new to selfhosting but see a lot of potential. I wonder if anyone knows a good way to self host a notetaking app? The point is that I need to access my notes on multiple devices so self hosting them could be a nice idea. I currently use google keep and goodnotes but would like to leave those behind...
You're right, I didn't come at this neutrally. I didn't get that you were talking from the perspective of being a guy, sorry. I respect that you still try to assume good intentions and you're right that it will probably get you further than assuming the worst about people. I might have been talking about a different point than you, but my view on that is still the same. I just do not think the guy in question had other intentions than to pick up a girl and I do not agree with his conclusion at the end. The whole concept of the incel mentality is just frustrating to me and I have no idea how to handle that. And yes you're right, that if the guys were a bit more elaborate on why dude was in the wrong they could've helped the dude. I mean he probably doesn't have friends in the first place which makes it even worse to try and talk to people.
Yes you definitely have a point, I guess it would be better to assume the best and show compassion. I think it's just more difficult when creepieness becomes danger.
That actually makes a lot of sense, thanks!
From my experience, they're usually very nice people that really enjoy all animals
Maybe this is a stupid question, but what do you achieve with self-hosting music? What do you do with it? If it's only on localhost then I could just play the music locally? what is it for? :)
So the girl is wrong for not wanting to be sexually objectified by a random stranger...? If you knew how much women are harrassed and objectified all the god damn time when going out, you would know that being polite to these guys only sends them the wrong signals and makes them think that you are interested and they have a chance, and will make things worse. The core problem with these incel guys is that they feel totally entitled to a womans body and attention. They aren't! Yes everyone deserves a happy and healthy relationship with others and social connections, but these guys are so bitter that they literally think spending 30 dollars on a beer should give them access to a girl. If they would genuinely want to just have a conversation with them he wouldn't have drawn the conclusion that he stated at the end. He wouldn't have to feel that rejected. It's because he was there especially to find a girl to date, that the girl couldn't live up to his expectations.
Women aren't objects to obtain or fuck. And honestly most women get harrassed and stalked and get unwanted attention from men so much that they sense the intentions of these guys immediately.
And besides he didn't say anything about the reaction of the women in question, so we don't know what she said, how she felt, and how hostile she and the guys were and why. Just assuming that these people are completely in the wrong for sending an incel away who is only there to find a sexual mate and writing a whole ass essay about that is wild to me
Sorry but the guy gave zero info on how polite he was to the girl and how interested he was in having an actual conversation. Probably in reality he was being invasive af and the guys in question reacted appropriately by defending the girl. As a woman myself yes I am just there to enjoy my time with my friends, not to be sexually objectified by men who feel so entitled that they think spending 30 dollars on a beer and walking up to me should be a guaranteed relationship. It's the expectations that are out of whack here. Yes, I should be nice to him if he was just genuinely looking for a conversation. But we all know he wasn't just looking for that.
You're literally telling us that you did actually put in a ton of labour, so it's not completely passive
Fahrenheit is bullshit, just learn celsius
Sorry Pink Floyd is my favourite band and I totally do not feel like a boring person 😂
In my experience dog owners often like to control another being, cat owners like to just let others be.
Sadly new Doc Martens don't have steel toes anymore :'(
Do you think he will actually do that, or is it just an empty threat?
Wait Trump is talking about using the military against American citizens??? (Maybe I missed this, I am Dutch so I don't watch American news all day)
Most apps literally don't work right is you do not enable all location services
I too, have my doubts on how this age restriction will be enforced, besides the parents
Hi, welcome to the Lemmy Grimes fan page! I realised there wasn't one yet so I made it :)