Thanks for the in depth description! The "everything going on" vs "one ring" makes a lot of sense, receiving anal I definitely agree, the primary sensation is definitely like of a ring, so that's a really good comparison for me to go off/think about!
And thanks for the suggestion, I'll have to keep exploring! It's tough cause I'm definitely much more attracted to folks with a vagina, and it's kinda scary since it takes a bit to loosen up which is a lot easier to go at my own pace on my own. But I bet a 3-way could be a fun way to try it out, and I could loosen myself up with a toy before they go in 👀🤔
Yeah, I'm not all about size, but I am a big dude at 6'6". Not sure if buttholes scale up proportionately or not though lol. It definitely takes a decent bit to relax enough for it, getting past the outer sphincter is pretty quick but the internal sphincter is the one that takes a bit more time. Speaking of, iirc when boofing drugs you don't want to go past the internal sphincter since the rectal columns are best for absorbing
Thanks for getting into the sensations! I think you did a good job describing them, I also have only tried with dildos.
For me the main thing is like you said sensation in the penis, it feels more swollen and sensitive than a normal erection, and over time if I don't touch my penis it feels like what I'd imagine a balloon getting slowly inflated might feel like (even though the strength of my erection stays about the same, or sometimes even goes down a bit). And then around my anus the texture of it sliding in and out feels really nice, and the prostate pressure amplifies everything. It's hard to put into words, it's like the sensation of the pressure on it is like a blueish-white light radiating out from that spot and making everything nicer. But the feeling of fullness I don't think does all that much in itself, it definitely feels nice but it moreso amplifies everything because I find penetration so hot, and I'm getting to experience a glimpse of it.
I think also, taking the time to relax and loosen up to get the dildo in makes a big difference (especially with the biggest one I have, I was looking it up the other day and I think it's like 1.75", but I'm not sure if that's diameter or circumference. The adam and eve listing just said lengthx1.75" insertable. I don't remember the length). It's like it forces me to get more into my body and the sensations, and get me into a headspace where I'm orienting my consciousness towards acceptance and relaxation and embracing the sensations I'm feeling, which now that I think of it reminds me a lot of some of the Qualia Research Institute descriptions of metta and equanimity and neural annealing (i highly recommend reading some of their stuff or watching some of their videos if you get the chance!)
Wow, that's really interesting, thanks for sharing!
Oh yeah, that would be a really interesting perspective!
Are anal orgasms possible for you without any other stimulation?
Yeah, I think I'm not so much trying to figure out if I'm missing out not having a pussy, moreso I know there are certain sensations that will just not be possible for be so I'm trying to get a clearer idea what the difference between what I can experience and what I can't is, if that makes sense. And not just the difference in orgasm, either, but everything leading up to it.
Interesting, the main things I've heard (which is not much, to be fair) is that getting on testosterone makes trans folks more horny, like going through a second puberty. Maybe that's just temporary?
Thanks for sharing! Is the primary difference the vulva stimulation? Is the feeling of being filled up/stretched similar (assuming best case scenario where they went slow on the ass to give it time to loosen and used plenty of lube)?
Yeah it's interesting, I'm not particularly interested in doing anal penetration, besides maybe putting in a butt plug for my partner, but adding some anal play for me really amplifies the experience, even just putting in a prostate stimulator. Pussy is just so nice, I love feeling my partner get wet, or if I'm fingering her during foreplay and can feel her vagina tent as she gets more aroused that's super hot (although not super common, usually it already has by the time I'm fingering lol), and it's just clean and made for penis and ready to go without all the extra steps and time ass play needs 😆
Lately I've been experimenting with masturbating with a dildo, and it takes a while to relax and loosen enough to get it in, but when I do it feels really good being able to slide up and down it, and I really like having my hand in a static spot so that every thrust into my hand slides up the dildo, and then lowering my hips slides me out of my hand but pushes it in deeper or against my prostate. I definitely want to explore it more, maybe find a guy and girl (or a girl who likes pegging) to do a threesome where I'm in between them 🤔
sorry for the wall of text 😅🤷