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What's the most stupid trend (or fad) you participated in yourself?
  • If I had time and money I would invent dressy clothes that are practical, long-lasting and comfortable!

    The problem was that I adopted the trend without thinking about my poor college student lifestyle (LOTS of bus-metro-walk and carrying heavy books). By the end of that day, the tights had runs, the heels were dirty and scuffed, and my feet were killing me. I looked and felt like crap.

  • What's the most stupid trend (or fad) you participated in yourself?
  • Aw, thank you. I appreciate it but let's be real: I know it was stupid. Like, I thought that dressing smart means I'm smart. I did enjoy the feeling of being put together, but wearing my heavy backpack with heels was atrociously stupid.

  • What's the most stupid trend (or fad) you participated in yourself?
  • Wearing super preppy clothes to school/college. I was mistaken for a teacher in 11th grade. In college, I once wore a pencil skirt, black tights, white sweater, and high heels... to a regular Tuesday afternoon class, just because I wanted to.

  • It's weird that we enjoy stimulating our fear response
  • I think that fear is just one of the many responses humans like to stimulate. Spicy foods and deep massages? Fancy pain. Fireworks and laser shows? Fancy lights and colors. I wonder if it ties into the ability to remember that we survived the painful stimulus long enough to enjoy the aftermath, so we're more likely to seek out that stimulus in the future? High risk = high reward kind of thing.

    Also brings this to mind: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Supernormal_stimulus

  • Lemons(?) of Lemmy, what is something that feels so obvious to you that you just get lowkey pissed at the world for not knowing?
  • Also, if you have any tricks for teaching percentages, ratios and basic statistics PLEASE SHARE. My partner has a new job and while he shines at the field work aspect, he has trouble with the mathier parts. He's had godawful terrible teachers his whole life. I've tried coaching him in math but my methods don't click with him. We also don't have the time to wade through dozens of YouTube videos hoping to hit the holy grail...

  • Lemons(?) of Lemmy, what is something that feels so obvious to you that you just get lowkey pissed at the world for not knowing?
  • Thank you for taking the time to write it out! Funnily enough I'm not too bad at math (I tapped out at around linear algebra level) but I was taught in a very rigid way. Useful concepts like commutativity were just... read out loud to kids to be remembered as a Law Of Nature, instead of allowing kids to play with numbers and develop our numbers intuition. So while I have a decent theoretical knowledge, I'm terrible at applying what I know to real life. If that makes any sense?

  • Pets Sunday - How are they doing?
  • She was sad that visiting family left, then happy to lick our dinner plates, then stressed out by thunder and lightning. She climbed on the couch and curled up tight next to me and actually calmed down! Usually she's a scared panting mess for hours.

  • What was using the internet in the early 2000s like?
  • My first brush with the internet was in 2000. We had our family computer in the living room. Our dial-up ISP was Funcow. The local newspaper had a little section where they talked about fun websites to visit (family-friendly of course) and we would check them out in the evening. I know that Google existed but we didn't use it - we had AltaVista, then Yahoo. These were also website directories - basically lists of websites grouped by topics. So if you didn't find what you were looking for on one website, you'd try the next one, and so on. And the websites themselves were basically made by hand in html. To stand out some people threw in lots of little animated icons garish colors, weird website layouts, background music that couldn't be turned off... It was 100% amateur and unpolished, and much much MUCH more diverse than today's internet. But slowly, massively popular websites and tools started to dominate. Microsoft had a huge presence through Hotmail, MSN.com, and MSN Messenger. But Yahoo Messenger had video chatting first (IIRC). There were fansites about everything under the sun but no Wikipedia so researching any given topic in depth was a mammoth, tedious task. In 7th grade I wrote a research paper on ferrets and referenced about half a dozen websites but only collected about two sentences worth of useful information from each - so research was still heavily reliant on books and libraries. Speaking of libraries: that's where almost everyone went for free internet. Schools and colleges also had computer labs with free internet and woefully inadequate content filters. It was crazy. It was awesome.

  • Wild New Study Suggests Gravity Can Exist Without Mass
  • These sets of concentric shells contain a thin layer of positive mass tucked inside an outer layer of negative mass.

    So how much evidence is there for negative mass, then? Sounds like just replacing one unknown with another.

  • What’s Your Take On This?
  • You sound like you know what you like and what you want, and aren't afraid to say it. GOOD. That is quite rare for someone that young, and it's no surprise it's intimidating to guys used to always get their way. DO NOT compromise. Do not settle, ever. A bad relationship is a thousand times worse than being single. Go live your life, follow your interests, meet new people, do new things. Those experiences are essential to becoming you - and you're wise enough to know that. If you're interested in dating, know that the right person will see and appreciate all that you already are and won't project expectations on you.

    As for your "friend"... From what you said, I get the feeling he was stringing you along, enjoying the attention (aka validation) you gave him. He may even have hoped that you'd eventually cave in and be intimate with him, which would explain why he basically cut contact once you made yourself clear it won't happen. In any case, he doesn't value or respect who you are as a person. At least he was upfront enough to tell you what he's looking for, so you didn't waste your time.

  • Extinctions
  • Agreed, look at all the natural variation that was lost. The newcomers don't convey the same intensity of emotions.

    P.S. "extant" means still in existence, I believe you meant "extinct" :)

    Edit: I only now realize the image is also incorrectly labeled. It's a perfectly understandable mistake, anyway.

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    stelelor @lemmy.ca

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