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  • It does get better. We have 3 (ages 2-8 now). You’re in the hardest part right now.

    I highly recommend talking to someone, whether it be a therapist, friend/family, or support group. It helps so much to know you’re not alone and even just have an outlet to vent.

    Find ways to get even 30 minutes to yourself and/or with your partner, even if it’s just when the kids are asleep. Go on walks, with and without kids, if possible. Talk to them about what you’re feeling and help each other through it.

    Most of all, remember that this is temporary. This is where you put in the most work with the least visible results. Within weeks or a few months at most, your kids will be interacting with each other. This time next year, you’ll have a toddler running around babbling and laughing with their older sibling. You haven’t even begun to see the life changing magic of their relationship with each other. It will come quickly and never stop enriching your entire family’s lives. It does get better. 💕

  • Automatic Computer break software?
  • I don’t have any specific recommendations but that type of software is often called a pomodoro timer, named after the Pomodoro technique. You should be able to find some good options with a quick google. 🍀

  • Weekly Release Thread July 28th

    Credit to u/sink_or_swim1 from Reddit

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    Singles/ICYMI

    • Polaris - Nightmare
    • Of Mice & Men - Warpaint
    • Slaughter to Prevail - Viking
    • Dying Wish - Watch My Promise Die
    • Monosphere - Bleak
    • Traitors - Unhinged
    • Apparitions - What We Conquer
    • Heart of a Coward - Devour Me
    • Splinters. - Blind Eyes
    • Advents - Red Thirteen
    • Leave. - Dead Dreams
    • Conquer Divide - N E W H E A V E N
    • Death Before Dishonor - Master of None
    • Nasty - Roses

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    Albums/EPs

    • Revision the Dream - Transparency (Progressive Metalcore)
    • From Ashes To New - Blackout (Modern Metal/Metalcore/Electronic)
    • Somebody Once Told Me - Expand | Descent (Metalcore)
    • Blacksound - Rosary II EP (Metalcore)
    • Romhack - Machine Matriarch EP (Metalcore/Electronic)
    • Unsolicited - Luminous Empire (Progressive Metalcore/Instrumental)
    • Signs of the Swarm - Amongst the Low & Empty (Deathcore)
    • Street Soldier - Original Murda Material EP (Hardcore)
    • The Sun‘s Journey Through the Night - Worldless (Atmospheric Black Metal)
    • Mutoid Man - Demons (Progressive Rock/Metal)
    • Secret Keeper - Dear Love, I Let You Go EP (Alternative Rock/Post-Hardcore)
    • Merit - When We‘re Gone EP (Pop-Punk) out now
    • Post Malone - Austin
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    Weekly Release Thread July 21st

    Credit to u/sink_or_swim1 from Reddit

    (I'm 1 week late posting this, so here are the releases from last week)

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    Singles/ICYMI

    • Silent Planet - Antimatter
    • Hollow Front - Letting Go
    • Beartooth - Might Love Myself
    • Resolve - New Colors
    • Upon a Burning Body - An Insatiable Hunger
    • Vianova - Shiver
    • Frontières - Nightmare
    • Traveller - Road Journal
    • Vicious Rain - Blackout
    • cohen_noise - The Hand That Feeds
    • Prospective - Hiding the Truth
    • Holding Absence - Scissors
    • Until I Wake - Cold
    • Wind Walkers - Bodybag
    • Harm’s Way - Silent Wolf
    • Code Orange - Take Shape
    • Humanity’s Last Breath - Passage
    • The Plot in You - Left Behind (Acoustic)

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    Albums/EPs

    • Johnny Booth - Moments Elsewhere (Metalcore/Hardcore)
    • Swarmed - Swarmed EP (Metalcore)
    • Somewhere to Call Home - Burden EP (Nu-Metalcore)
    • Everyone Dies in Utah - Supra / Infra ; Deluxe Version (Post-Hardcore/Metalcore)
    • Hollow, I Am - Seraphim Descent (Metalcore)
    • Ghost Heart - Elegant Decay, Pt.2 EP (Post-Hardcore/Melodic Hardcore) out now
    • Observist - Refracted EP (Metalcore) out now
    • The Curse Within - Eternity EP (Metalcore)
    • Jamies Elsewhere - Paradise EP (Post-Hardcore) out now
    • Forlorn - Sæl EP (Progressive Metal/Ambient) out now
    • Cultist - Slow Suicide (Beatdown/Hardcore)
    • Clot - Grief Tethers (Blackened Hardcore)
    • Poolside at the Flamingo - Self-Titled EP (Deathcore)
    • Salem Trials - Nocturnal Creation EP (Deathcore)
    • The Zenith Passage - Datalysium (Technical Death Metal/Progressive)
    • Outer Heaven - Infinite Psychic Depths (Death Metal)
    • Saint Agnes - Bloodsuckers (Punk-Rock/Grunge/Alternative Rock)
    • As December Falls - Join the Club (Pop-Punk)
    • Delridge - Summer Songs EP (Easycore)
    • Yellowcard - Childhood Eyes EP (Alternative Rock)
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    Weekly Release Thread July 14th

    Credit to /u/sink_or_swim1 from Reddit

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    Singles/ICYMI

    • The Ghost Inside - Earn It
    • Johnny Booth - The Ladder
    • Our Hollow Our Home - Downpour
    • Cliffside - Endless Wells
    • ENOX - Fallout
    • Nik Nocturnal & Brand of Sacrifice - Awaken In Ashes
    • Continents - Lifeline
    • A Titan, A Deity - In Dreams
    • Monasteries - Heaven Failed Us
    • Caskets - Believe
    • Thy Art is Murder - Keres
    • Nocturnal Bloodlust - Despise
    • Landon Tewers - I Like It

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    Albums/EPs

    • Fallstar - Sacred Mirrors (Metalcore)
    • Decades In - Grievances EP (Metalcore/Hardcore) out now
    • Chamber - A Love to Kill For (Chaotic Hardcore/Metalcore)
    • Grieve - Bound to the Hurt EP (Metalcore)
    • Eternal Closure - At the Center of it All - Chapter II EP (Metalcore)
    • May They Rest - Ghost of My Tomorrow (Metalcore)
    • Of Rituals - Scorched Earth (Metalcore)
    • allswell. - Holding On To Nothing (Melodic Hardcore/Metalcore) out now
    • Dark Signal - Volume 1 EP (Post-Hardcore/Alternative Rock)
    • Voyager - Fearless in Love (Synth Rock/Alternative Metal)
    • Moodring - Your Light Fades Away EP (Nu-Metal/Alternative Metal)
    • Crown Magnetar - Everything Bleeds (Deathcore)
    • Face Yourself - Death Reflections EP (Deathcore) out now
    • Djinn-Ghüll - Opulence (Death Metal/Deathcore)
    • Abigails Affair - Silence Speaks EP (Post-Hardcore) out now
    • Calligram - Position | Momentum (Black Metal)
    • Pvris - Evergreen (Pop-Rock/Electronic)
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