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Do the right wing women in relationships with right wing guys think it's like a draco malfoy thing where they're a good guy underneath?
  • Thanks, I appreciate the kind words. I'd say my comment upvote/downvoted policy is similar. I downvote things that are unproductive or nasty in nature, because I generally productive discussions.

    But holy hell did the discussion take a toxic turn. By the end of the day I was just burnt out on it and went to sleep. Had it started as a proper discussion, rather than a downvote fest and immediately pulling out the usual "you're an evil Nazi" rhetoric, it would have probably gone in a much more civil direction.

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  • Definitely run it in a container. It's a great application, but it has several documented security holes. You'll want it to be as restricted as possible, so if a major exploit does come about, it won't do much harm.

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  • I've been running rootless Podman (with the exception of my reverse proxy, because privileged ports) without any issues, though my one challenge has actually been documentation - specifically for podman-compose, which seems to be a complete void.

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  • It's great piece of software. A couple weird defaults that I usually change immediately (e.g. scaling stroke when you resize an object), but otherwise its interface is reasonably intuitive, and does its job quite well.

  • Do the right wing women in relationships with right wing guys think it's like a draco malfoy thing where they're a good guy underneath?
  • Darn, I actually just responded to a comment about gay people a few minutes ago.

    Long story short: not a fan of the concept, but I'm entirely friendly to them as long as they're not horrible people. That said, I don't knowingly interact with gay people often, not because I avoid them, but because I'm probably not paying attention to their sexuality.

    I guess my general line of thinking is that, if I can figure out a person's religion or sexuality within seconds of meeting them, there's usually something obnoxious about them to begin with.

  • Do the right wing women in relationships with right wing guys think it's like a draco malfoy thing where they're a good guy underneath?
  • All good situations to consider.

    Regarding household chores, we don't really keep score on that kind of thing. We just take care of things as needed. I do most of the cooking, and she's happy to was dishes and vacuum the floors. I scrub the toilets, and she wipes down the counters. If she's not feeling well or is overwhelmed by work, I'll pick up the slack, and vice versa. Honestly, it's a very easy relationship for both of us. We're both engineers though, so we take practical approaches to most things in life.

    If she didn't want to be a stay at home mother, we'd find an alternative, whether it be childcare, family, or me taking a remote job or a leave of absence from work.

    Without googling the definition of ectopic, we'd likely abort anything that put her at significant risk, or in the case of a major defect that would ruin all three of our lives.

    Would you use IVF if you had trouble conceiving?

    Nah, we'd take that as a sign to not have children. No need to pass along iffy genes :P

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