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I learned English since 2022, I think. We were 18 :) \n\n- M (he/him)","removed":false,"published":"2025-06-12T01:59:59.103351Z","deleted":false,"ap_id":"https://thelemmy.club/comment/19404978","local":false,"path":"0.17327884","distinguished":false,"language_id":37},"creator":{"id":18050460,"name":"wendyz7","display_name":"Wendy","avatar":"https://thelemmy.club/pictrs/image/03b7b003-def3-40ae-80e6-99807f4bbf15.jpeg","banned":false,"published":"2025-06-03T05:01:12.840973Z","actor_id":"https://thelemmy.club/u/wendyz7","bio":"🖤 ***Bruja*** 🖤 \n\n🕯 ⛓ ***Lesbiana | 21***⛓ 🕯\n\n🇪🇸 ⚰️ Unapologetically me ⚰️ 🇪🇸 \n\n(I don’t know what age can use Lemmy but DNI if < 18)","local":false,"banner":"https://thelemmy.club/pictrs/image/ff1604e8-7225-4d09-afd3-57e7671b5a8d.jpeg","deleted":false,"bot_account":false,"instance_id":128},"post":{"id":23900123,"name":"Languages","body":"I, the host, Wendy, speak English and Spanish, though I am learning Portuguese. My alter Mark/J though, speaks Spanish first and then actually **learned** English 3 years ago though he knew some from me.\n\nHe speaks Spanglish, kind of, but also English & Spanish. Have you had any alters that speak another language or didn’t know English for a while even if you did?\n\n- W (she/her)","creator_id":18050460,"community_id":1293529,"removed":false,"locked":false,"published":"2025-06-12T01:56:38.321628Z","deleted":false,"nsfw":false,"ap_id":"https://thelemmy.club/post/28783590","local":false,"language_id":37,"featured_community":false,"featured_local":false},"community":{"id":1293529,"name":"Plurality","title":"plurality discussion and support","description":"Another plural community for all things plural and discussions!","removed":false,"published":"2025-06-11T03:17:41.018358Z","updated":"2025-06-11T03:19:44.602749Z","deleted":false,"nsfw":false,"actor_id":"https://sh.itjust.works/c/Plurality","local":false,"icon":"https://sh.itjust.works/pictrs/image/33d2b2d2-1802-4b58-bec5-375cc5cfd250.jpeg","banner":"https://sh.itjust.works/pictrs/image/1d522785-d597-41e1-94be-ad8c7e380aa8.png","hidden":false,"posting_restricted_to_mods":false,"instance_id":32,"visibility":"Public"},"counts":{"comment_id":17327884,"score":2,"upvotes":2,"downvotes":0,"published":"2025-06-12T01:59:59.103351Z","child_count":0},"creator_banned_from_community":false,"banned_from_community":false,"creator_is_moderator":false,"creator_is_admin":false,"subscribed":"NotSubscribed","saved":false,"creator_blocked":false},{"comment":{"id":17304573,"creator_id":18050460,"post_id":23848991,"content":"Hey! 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James deserves respect, cheater or not.","removed":false,"published":"2025-06-05T18:26:08.351262Z","deleted":false,"ap_id":"https://thelemmy.club/comment/19255976","local":false,"path":"0.17179932","distinguished":false,"language_id":37},"creator":{"id":18050460,"name":"wendyz7","display_name":"Wendy","avatar":"https://thelemmy.club/pictrs/image/03b7b003-def3-40ae-80e6-99807f4bbf15.jpeg","banned":false,"published":"2025-06-03T05:01:12.840973Z","actor_id":"https://thelemmy.club/u/wendyz7","bio":"🖤 ***Bruja*** 🖤 \n\n🕯 ⛓ ***Lesbiana | 21***⛓ 🕯\n\n🇪🇸 ⚰️ Unapologetically me ⚰️ 🇪🇸 \n\n(I don’t know what age can use Lemmy but DNI if < 18)","local":false,"banner":"https://thelemmy.club/pictrs/image/ff1604e8-7225-4d09-afd3-57e7671b5a8d.jpeg","deleted":false,"bot_account":false,"instance_id":128},"post":{"id":23561831,"name":"Is he TA for refusing to call his bully ex by his preferred name and pronouns?","body":"[Real names will not be used].\n\nOkay, so I kind of want other opinions. My (24F) sister (14F) has a boyfriend Dominic (16M).\n\nDominic’s last relationship was with a guy named James (16FTM). However, James used to be a girl called “Jacqueline”.\n\nI feel a lot of sympathy towards Dominic. After all, James cheated on him with other boys and such. He also bullied Dominic when they were dating and after they broke up before Dominic blocked James.\n\nHowever, James is trying to tell my sister that Dominic is transphobic. To be honest, I can see where James is coming from even though I don’t know him and sympathize with Dominic.\n\nJames says that Dominic doesn’t care and refuses to call James by his preferred name, and instead used she/her pronouns and refers to him as Jacqueline.\n\nDominic says that it’s because James bullies him. He says he’s not transphobic and he also seems to call every other person by their preferred name/pronouns, but doesn’t care about James’s.\n\nMy sister didn’t know what to do and just blocked James, but she and Dominic’s friend agree that it’s bad that Dominic calls him “Jacqueline”.\n\nI think that Dominic is hurt and that hurt people hurt people. I also believe James is a bully who cheated on Dominic, though I don’t know James, but I still think he deserves respect.\n\nJames is not completely innocent and neither is Dominic, but James is a human being worthy of respect and Dominic struggles with empathy and understanding trans people.","creator_id":15374619,"community_id":436,"removed":false,"locked":false,"published":"2025-06-05T18:20:20.242439Z","updated":"2025-06-05T21:10:03.508842Z","deleted":true,"nsfw":true,"ap_id":"https://lemmy.ml/post/31223163","local":false,"language_id":37,"featured_community":false,"featured_local":false},"community":{"id":436,"name":"amitheasshole","title":"Am I the Asshole","removed":false,"published":"2023-06-11T19:47:02.136746Z","deleted":false,"nsfw":true,"actor_id":"https://lemmy.world/c/amitheasshole","local":false,"hidden":false,"posting_restricted_to_mods":false,"instance_id":24,"visibility":"Public"},"counts":{"comment_id":17179932,"score":9,"upvotes":12,"downvotes":3,"published":"2025-06-05T18:26:08.351262Z","child_count":2},"creator_banned_from_community":false,"banned_from_community":false,"creator_is_moderator":false,"creator_is_admin":false,"subscribed":"NotSubscribed","saved":false,"creator_blocked":false},{"comment":{"id":17159765,"creator_id":18050460,"post_id":23511296,"content":"We love you. 🫂 Hang in there. You don’t deserve this treatment at all.","removed":false,"published":"2025-06-04T21:12:46.651242Z","deleted":false,"ap_id":"https://thelemmy.club/comment/19235404","local":false,"path":"0.17159765","distinguished":false,"language_id":0},"creator":{"id":18050460,"name":"wendyz7","display_name":"Wendy","avatar":"https://thelemmy.club/pictrs/image/03b7b003-def3-40ae-80e6-99807f4bbf15.jpeg","banned":false,"published":"2025-06-03T05:01:12.840973Z","actor_id":"https://thelemmy.club/u/wendyz7","bio":"🖤 ***Bruja*** 🖤 \n\n🕯 ⛓ ***Lesbiana | 21***⛓ 🕯\n\n🇪🇸 ⚰️ Unapologetically me ⚰️ 🇪🇸 \n\n(I don’t know what age can use Lemmy but DNI if < 18)","local":false,"banner":"https://thelemmy.club/pictrs/image/ff1604e8-7225-4d09-afd3-57e7671b5a8d.jpeg","deleted":false,"bot_account":false,"instance_id":128},"post":{"id":23511296,"name":"To my abuser and bully (since lemm.ee is shutting down)","body":"Fuck you for trying to control me.\n\nFor trying to tell me what I can and can’t do.\n\nFor telling me that I would never find love.\n\nFor telling me my disorders make me a weak, useless animal.\n\nFor calling me sub-human and treating me as such.\n\nFor thinking of me as less than I am.\n\nFor calling me a child and treating me like you’ve said I was: a “retard”.\n\nFor getting your (who were also my) “friends” to turn on me and threaten me and stalk me.\n\nFor making fun of people with disabilities.\n\nFor harassing my FRIENDS.\n\nFuck you.\n\nI actually, truly hate you. I don’t just feel disappointed anymore. It’s some sort of hatred. I will never speak to you and your friend(s) again.\n\nI don’t want to speak to you. I’m way better off than you. I have a fiancé, friends, and a loving family.\n\nYou tried to hurt me. You said it was my fault.\n\nYou said I made you hurt me, that I made your friend stalk me and make sexual harassment comments and even pretend to ask me out so you could make fun of me.\n\nI realized you never actually loved me. You were a fake, abusive asshole. You suck. I hate you so damn much. But I’m moving on.\n\nYou’re right. I don’t deserve someone like you. I should have listened to you when you said you were a fake, toxic person who doesn’t like anyone but yourself. When you said I wasn’t who I thought you were.\n\nYou were right. And I eventually listened. I got past the bias and the loneliness. I’m no longer lonely. I found love and friends and don’t need you anymore. I don’t need your false love or friendship. I don’t need to be biased against you and think that was love to combat the loneliness I no longer have.\n\nHe loves me. You don’t.\n\nThey like me. You don’t.\n\nThey accept me. You don’t and didn’t.\n\nAnd you can shove your fake apology, fake tears, and fake love up your butt, because the damage towards me and others is too great. I forgive you for peace of mind, but I will never speak to you or trust you again.\n\nYou hurt me, act like nothing happened, then pull me in again. It’s a “never-ending” cycle but people have limits. I have limits. I was your most loving friend and you threw me away for my disability.\n\nYou probably will never find someone more willing to put up with your crap, or it will be very hard. Not for someone who knows the real you. They don’t know you, that’s why they support you. Or they’re messed up themselves. I may be one of the only ones who knows you. The only one who knows you better is probably yourself.\n\nYou were right when we were friends and you were nice and you said “You know me, but you don’t know me.” I didn’t know the real you, but now I do. I trusted you and you threw me out. It’s my fault I introduced you to my friends and they threw me away. They sided with you in the end and I won’t trust them either.\n\nFuck you. Maybe them, too, brainwashed as they are. They think you’re the victim. They don’t know the real you, and I pity them, but they did damage too that they just can’t fix right away. Therefore I don’t trust them either.\n\nBye. I’m healing. I’m stronger now. I have love and a life and friends. 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My alter Mark/J though, speaks Spanish first and then actually **learned** English 3 years ago though he knew some from me.\n\nHe speaks Spanglish, kind of, but also English & Spanish. Have you had any alters that speak another language or didn’t know English for a while even if you did?\n\n- W (she/her)","creator_id":18050460,"community_id":1293529,"removed":false,"locked":false,"published":"2025-06-12T01:56:38.321628Z","deleted":false,"nsfw":false,"ap_id":"https://thelemmy.club/post/28783590","local":false,"language_id":37,"featured_community":false,"featured_local":false},"creator":{"id":18050460,"name":"wendyz7","display_name":"Wendy","avatar":"https://thelemmy.club/pictrs/image/03b7b003-def3-40ae-80e6-99807f4bbf15.jpeg","banned":false,"published":"2025-06-03T05:01:12.840973Z","actor_id":"https://thelemmy.club/u/wendyz7","bio":"🖤 ***Bruja*** 🖤 \n\n🕯 ⛓ ***Lesbiana | 21***⛓ 🕯\n\n🇪🇸 ⚰️ Unapologetically me ⚰️ 🇪🇸 \n\n(I don’t know what age can use Lemmy but DNI if < 18)","local":false,"banner":"https://thelemmy.club/pictrs/image/ff1604e8-7225-4d09-afd3-57e7671b5a8d.jpeg","deleted":false,"bot_account":false,"instance_id":128},"community":{"id":1293529,"name":"Plurality","title":"plurality discussion and support","description":"Another plural community for all things plural and discussions!","removed":false,"published":"2025-06-11T03:17:41.018358Z","updated":"2025-06-11T03:19:44.602749Z","deleted":false,"nsfw":false,"actor_id":"https://sh.itjust.works/c/Plurality","local":false,"icon":"https://sh.itjust.works/pictrs/image/33d2b2d2-1802-4b58-bec5-375cc5cfd250.jpeg","banner":"https://sh.itjust.works/pictrs/image/1d522785-d597-41e1-94be-ad8c7e380aa8.png","hidden":false,"posting_restricted_to_mods":false,"instance_id":32,"visibility":"Public"},"creator_banned_from_community":false,"banned_from_community":false,"creator_is_moderator":false,"creator_is_admin":false,"counts":{"post_id":23900123,"comments":1,"score":4,"upvotes":4,"downvotes":0,"published":"2025-06-12T01:56:38.321628Z","newest_comment_time":"2025-06-12T01:59:59.103351Z"},"subscribed":"NotSubscribed","saved":false,"read":false,"hidden":false,"creator_blocked":false,"unread_comments":1}],"moderates":[]}

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