Oh I agree. I struggle with depression and anxiety myself. But, I try really hard to keep my shit together, even when I feel terrible. I don't feel like she's putting in the same effort.
Not at first. This is fairly recent. She already gets snippy about me not helping that much around the house. I do help but I'm not taking on half of the work.
I'm not ok with that. It's just not really feasible to live off one income these days.
After kids are in school. They're expecting full support during the whole first years of kids.
They do have ADHD and is medicated. I know it can be an impediment and try to support them. I'm not sure how much longer I can be OK with little to no progress.
So I'm not sure if I can or should continue my relationship with my fiance or try to fix things. We've been together for two years now. When we first started dating they said that they were working on finishing their masters degree but they have not done so. They also said they'd be going back to work after they finished their degree. They have just been running through their savings and staying at home. They do most of the chores but the house is often a bit of a mess. Now they're saying that they want to wait until after kids to go back to work. My family also thinks it is a bad idea to marry them.
I've been able to throw most halflings so far.