Is it a reasonable expectation to check peoples profiles when commenting on their comments to ensure I am pronouning them correctly?

Looks like my account was banned/restricted for the above interaction, have already sent the mods on world an email asking if they'd be willing to reverse that. Had an episode of psychosis a few months ago where I did say some offensive stuff, (understandably) got a 3 month ban on .lol for that, so could see my account having been flagged.

I uh, I don’t think it’s reasonable to expect people to check others profiles to ensure we are correctly pronouning them… when making a throw away comment that is less than 10 words involving a ludicrously common saying. Jerboa does not show users pronouns. I could switch to an app that DOES show the pronouns, do any Lemmings have a recommendation for a free Lemmy mobile app that has that feature?

Edit: Edie chimed in, Jerboa does show pronouns. It's a formatting issue with mobile vs browser (She has them on individual text lines so they don't appear on mobile).

Was just going to respond to the user in question to let them know I wasn't purposefully trying to offend that individual, to discover I'm not able to post or make comments on world now, so figured I'd see what y'alls opinion on the matter is.

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Uh, yes, but its a mutual misunderstanding from both sides...
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  Welp, turns out I was a lib/rightist...
  
  What should I say?
  
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  Bad bot. You don't even understand the context of the discussion here.
  
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  Everyone You Disagree With Is A Bot/NPC
  
  Nah, just the accounts that come out of nowhere to post irrelevant nonsense that has nothing to do with the discussion.
  
  Jordan Peterson already wore out that gimmick.
  
  I don't follow propagandists such as him, but you must be a big fan to be so familiar with him, which is entirely unsurprising to me as your entire instance appears to be 4chan users doing a poor job of cosplaying as leftists.
  
  Lmao at the fucking audacity to post the most common drivel known to man and then call @UlyssesT@hexbear.net a bot
  I could train an LLM on Reddit and have it spit out your dime-a-dozen takes after 5 minutes. I've got no clue where to start if I wanted a machine to spit out his wordslurries.
  
  That's typical though, it's always the most average NPC-types that think they're big thinkers with big thoughts the rest of us haven't heard before. Your type will wander into any conversation and say "heh, but what about [thing everyone knows], bet you didn't consider that!" and if you get any pushback it's obviously not because people are capable of independent thought - you aren't, and you're so smart!
  
  In conclusion fuck your mother
  
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  Hahaha I tried to find a way to express your ability to create funny new phrasings, while still sticking to theme of the text (drivel, spit, etc) without being mean. Didn't quite work sadly
  
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  Lmao I've interacted with plenty of hexbear users but this comment takes the cake as one of the most unhinged, off the wall comments I've ever read.
  
  Congrats for being on lemmy for years, but that has nothing to do with anything said here, nor does pronoun preference.
  
  It's no wonder you all need to travel in packs. Without your fellow cult-like cosplayers manipulating the discussion with your blatant falsehoods and fabrications, you'd find zero support and be all alone and on display as the charlatans that you are.
  
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  I will not have you slander the comrade who finally sent to hell to become .

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