How would you process the fact that a new friend of yours is a cop? (USA)
How would you process the fact that a new friend of yours is a cop? (USA)
One of my new friends is/was a cop. Just found out about it. I genuinely believe ACAB, and this news has me conflicted because my new friend seems really cool and super nice. I don't know him super well yet, though. He's a big part of this new friend group and I don't know how to process this and how to deal with the fact he's a cop.
I don't want to look past the fact he's a cop, but I want to stay his friend and stay in this friend group.
Any advice for dealing with this shit?
I can't talk to my therapist about it until Thursday.
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I genuinely believe ACAB,
Yeahhhh... No. That's not true. Being a police officer doesn't make someone a bad person. Good cops exist.
The reason ACAB is because a good cop exists in a superposition between resigned and
murderedtragically killed in the line of duty, and the act of reporting a bad cop collapses the waveform.I was of this conviction until Amsterdam riot cops hunted down protestors like animals and beat them relentlessly, without reason, after they were released from custody, and not a single other cop denounced it.
(Here's a short compilation of videos taken while it happened: https://mastodon.nl/@sjmulder/113478212168608243 and a journalistic piece: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bw6lb2GDetY)
Good cops should prevent bad cops from existing.
There are no good cops.
You forgot to add "...for a very short time per individual" at the end