thats just so fucking absurd though, like I could potentially understand rocking back and forth in the corner watching a movie with sweat running off your brow for a while to cope with the tension of the event, the birth of your child, but porn?!?!?!? What the fuck thats the last thing that should be on someone's mind in a situation like this lmao
Yeah sitting around for 24-48 hours is gonna involve both people distracting themselves with phones but not helping is wild, porn is absolutely unhinged, like, I don't, what
Do people usually help during birth? I would've expected that that's something the nurses do (as someone who isn't trained for that might do something wrong or just be in the way).