She can always decide to not listen to them. However, when you don't make them she would have no other option. I think the recordings would be a very nice idea. Maybe even video.
I think video is a great idea. I'm going to do one a day, just about what has been going on, five minutes or less. I also need to start keeping a dairy diary, so this will knock out both at once.
She loves you. She will always love you. The other people in her life that love her will need to love her loving you. She'll move on, but she'll always carry you with her. Make the videos
My dad passed away two years ago and I wish I had followed through with doing video interviews of him. Asking him questions about life, having him tell the same stories he'd already told 100x. I wish I had those.
I am already starting to do that for my daughter who is only 9 months old.