"MIND. THE GAP."
It's only Embankment station that has this old recording. The rest have been updated. It is kept just for her. The new message is longer and much less stern. Something along the lines of "Please mind the gap between the train and the platform"
She can always decide to not listen to them. However, when you don't make them she would have no other option. I think the recordings would be a very nice idea. Maybe even video.
I think video is a great idea. I'm going to do one a day, just about what has been going on, five minutes or less. I also need to start keeping a dairy diary, so this will knock out both at once.
She loves you. She will always love you. The other people in her life that love her will need to love her loving you. She'll move on, but she'll always carry you with her. Make the videos
My dad passed away two years ago and I wish I had followed through with doing video interviews of him. Asking him questions about life, having him tell the same stories he'd already told 100x. I wish I had those.
I am already starting to do that for my daughter who is only 9 months old.
Aww. This reminds me of my car, which had a recording of my dad who had it before, saying "Tweak's phone". It's something so small and insignificant, but still warmingly happy.
I set up a streaming radio station with a looped recording of my cat purring. She died in 2018. This way she'd always be purring somewhere in the ether.
Can't say how many times I've thought about this the past couple years.
I still have both my parents, but both are about to hit their 70s and their health is already not great. There's a fast approaching time coming where I'll never be able to hear their voices again. My dad's said "love ya" so few times in my life, not because he doesn't, but he's from that upbringing where you don't really say that stuff. He finally picked it up from me a few years ago and now says it any time he sees me. I've ended up saving voicemails he and my mom leave, just so I can at least hear their voices again when they're gone.
Appreciate the time you get with the people you love. It's easy to take for granted that they're always there. Someday they won't be and it'll be quicker than you can imagine when it happens.
I had the same thought years ago, and also started saving all my voicemail from loved ones to my phone. With a parent and grandparent recently passed, it's much appreciated to have at least these recordings. I don't have many vids of them talking directly to me, but these voice messages hit different because for a moment, it almost feels like they're still alive and reaching out to me.