How do I stop hating children?
How do I stop hating children?
Almost all my life I've absolutely despised children. Pretty much from the moment I stopped being a child I've hated being around children.
It doesn't even matter what the child is doing. Whether they're laughing and having fun or screaming and throwing a tantrum. The sound of a child being loud activates an almost primal rage that I can barely contain.
I've had to leave social gatherings/restaurants/grocery stores all because if I'd stayed I'd have made a complete ass of myself by screaming at a child just for existing.
It's even worse with infants which makes me feel horrible because I know they can't help it. I know the kids don't know any better and it's our job as adults to get them through childhood, but my blood boils when they get loud or demand attention.
Has anyone else dealt with something like this? Is there anything I can do to stop from getting so angry?
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I know the kids don’t know any better and it’s our job as adults to get them through childhood, but my blood boils when they get loud or demand attention.
It sounds like you still expect them to know better, to be better than the sociopathic children they are.
You can be angry at something because they are simply being annoying not just because expectations are not being met.
A baby crying is triggering to humans for example, this evolved on purpose to increase infant survivability. You don’t have to have expectations of quietness when a baby is crying loudly to feel irritated.
I could see the same applying to loud/rude children
You can be angry at something because they are simply being annoying not just because expectations are not being met.
A baby crying is triggering to humans for example, this evolved on purpose to increase infant survivability. You don’t have to have expectations of quietness when a baby is crying loudly to feel irritated.
I could see the same applying to loud/rude children