"I used to be with 'it', but then they changed what 'it' was. Now what I'm with isn't 'it' anymore and what's 'it' seems weird and scary. It'll happen to you!"
I simultaneously relate to and don't relate to this comment. Like sure they change what "it" is all the time and I'm not where the kids are so I don't find out until months later, but I've always been pretty open minded so I never think it's weird and scary.