I understand it's very much a meme. But a bad one. And without any indicators that it's not a serious answer it should just be treated as a wrong answer.
When someone honestly requests and ID these kinds of jokes are also just not appropriate in general. Most people that find spiders aren't in on them.
I wasn't trying to come across as "pissy". But trying to explain the "joke" you referenced. And yes, I guess explaining a joke always kind of makes you sound like a dick.
Nothing personal. But spider IDs are serious business.