The problems is what constitutes as politics is very different to different people. Is a gay man posting about his relationship with his husband political?
Drag doesn't think opting out is a privilege. Drag thinks being apolitical is a marginalised identity. Aroace people don't participate in the political systems of romance and sex. ASPD people don't respect political laws or norms. Drag thinks being political is the normal thing to do, and society punishes those who are less enmeshed in the dominant politics.
Because the decision of which politics is disallowed is a political discussion, and those people will bring their politics of bigotry to the table and argue that "no politics day" means minorities should be silenced.
On lemmy I've been accused so many times of reverse-racism and reverse-sexism, where advocating for minorities brings out the trolls who want to muddy the waters and claim that noticing bigotry is the real bigotry actually, and they had big vote pile-ons to go with those comments.
This is largely from big instances with open sign-up. I assume lemmy attracts the right wing trolls who tend to get banned from other places, which is one downside of being a viable alternative that isn't yet mainstream. Also I'm sure they target this place because it is generally left-leaning.
Yeah that's nice, the rest of us have to deal with reality however. So while you've created a fantasy world in your head where things are just and perfect the rest of us don't have that luxury. So let's not pretend that things are all that simple eh?
Drag thinks gay people are political. Politics is when a group of people use a process for decision making. A gay couple is a group of people who have decided to date each other. That's politics. Straight people are also political. Everything is political.
Aroace people are slightly less political than straight, gay, and bi people, but not by much, because they still have jobs and friendships and relatives.