Going purely by DV statistics and rape culture, yeah I pick the bear too.
It's agonising to know that I can scare women just by existing in an area/place they don't expect. And that's not their fault, they're just protecting themselves. It's our society that has made it this way.
Yeah it's important to remember that women don't hate men when they point out SA. It's more of a "please listen to us this isn't cool" than a "fuck you you are horrible and should feel bad".
If you hear something like that and feel like it is a personal attack, congratulations! You're the reason women don't feel safe walking alone at night.
And yet, for some reason, I don't believe you, and I have a strange feeling that any women you interact with wouldn't believe you either. How the hell did a sexist prick like you get through vetting?
No, Sexism is when you ignore and belittle women (like you have here in this thread) and when you get defensive when women mention how aggressive men can be towards them. You are giving off extremely fucked up vibes here, and this is just via text. I guarantee at least one woman has a horror story about you, whether you realise or not. You do not respect women, you're a sexist piece of shit.