(solved) If i link my Microsoft account to Minecraft does the email/phone that is connected to my ps4 account get an email/text about it?

My family doesnt know i have a Microsoft acc/email acc. Im worried that if i sign into my Minecraft with my Microsoft acc then my family member who has their email and phone number hooked up to my PS4 account will get an email/text about it. (For context im not allowed to have an email (or anything like that) so if they were to find out that would lead to a bunch of drama i cant deal with again. (they have found out about old emails and stuff in the past and lost their minds about it.)) the ps4 account DOES have parental controls/etc on it.