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My wife has an iPhone. I have a Samsung S23. Why do videos she texts me look like super low res shit?? Can iPhones not text videos?

Edit: NOTE, I am the receiver of the texts.

So many people asking me to have my wife do something different on her end.

Beloved, she is on iPhone because she doesn't want to do anything "weird." She is texting from her phone number using her texting app. That's what's going to happen.

Now, why can't I get iMessage on my android phone? If it's just a messenger app why not make it available for Android?

I'd use it.

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  • It's because Apple has refused to adopt new messaging standards like RCS (not that Google is doing that much of a better job), but it's purposefully broken interoperability to force people into buying into product ecosystems (iPhone vs. Android) to make you stick with one and get stuck on it.

    It's stupid anti-competitive and I freakin' hate it.

    Literally doesn't have to be this way, it's a choice (mostly by Apple, but once again doesn't mean Google is better).


    https://www.theverge.com/2024/6/15/24178470/apple-rcs-support-wwdc-announcement-android-imessage

    Apple was largely forced to support RCS in response to the mounting pressure from global regulators and competing companies. That may help explain the somewhat disgruntled approach to announcing its rollout in iOS 18.


    https://www.tomsguide.com/how-to-switch-on-rcs-messaging-in-ios-18

    Here's a walkthrough to ensure RCS is enabled on your wife's iPhone, once iOS 18 drops in the next month or so.

    • RCS is quite terrible. Very few carriers still host RCS services. The only reason it works is because Google decided "fuck it, if you guys won't provide RCS, we'll just set up our own server for everyone to use".

      My country has a total of 0 carriers that run RCS servers. Only Vodafone had them, and they shut them down, because nobody used them. Everyone who uses RCS here uses Google's servers. Wikipedia still lists carriers that have shut down RCS services so even the limited list of RCS capable carriers looks bigger than it is in reality.

      I don't know how Apple will implement RCS, but if they use carrier services (which, by the way, often are rented from Google as well), there's a good chance RCS still won't work. The only reliable way for Apple to add RCS is to copy what Google did and host an RCS server themselves.

      I'm glad Apple is finally adding support, but I don't blame them given how absolutely terrible the uptake among carriers was.

      Honestly, I'd rather have Apple open up iMessage than for them to enable RCS, but regulatory pressure from China has made them include RCS anyway, so they might as well support it in the rest of the world.

      To be fair, this is only a problem in countries where texting never died. In a lot of countries, apps like WhatsApp have taken over the role of the standard messenger over a decade ago, and everyone has one or more messaging apps they actually use.

      The funny thing about RCS is that it's not encrypted, and is designed to be run in carrier networks, where law enforcement agencies can read every message sent back and forth. If RCS had been taken up rather than WhatsApp or Line or any other competitor, our privacy situation would actually be much worse. In a way, I'm kind of thankful for RCS being so terrible.

    • Don't forget to add in the primary reason they don't want to implement it is exactly because of comment's like OPs, because it makes it look like Android phones are the problem. Most people assume that it's because it's an android it doesn't work right, and so everyone should just have iPhones. Why fix what is already great marketing for them, even if it is a complete lie?

    • A lot of RCS is using Google Jibe, itโ€™s one of the ways they were able to roll it out so fast not necessarily with carrier support. I canโ€™t fault them too much for not immediately embracing it. Based on the Toms Hardware link it looks like they are depending on carrier hubs. For me that means I may not get support for a long time as an MVNO user.

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