No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world Ellia Plissken @lemm.ee 2 wk. ago

what is an "over-under" during sex?

according to Urban Dictionary, it's either a hand job through clothing, or another term for 69ing. I don't understand why either of those would be called an "over under"

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Similarly, I want to know what a reach-around is.

Back home, it meant that when you're giving someone a bj, you reach around and finger their butthole.

I move out west and people are saying that it's when a guy is banging a guy from behind, he reaches around and gives the receiver a handy.

In these trying times, America needs to know.
- to my knowledge, it's the second one. and it's not just penis havers that can get a reach around, I often reach around to play with the clit
- Why not both?
- I get mixed up on these two all the time!
For some reason I think it means over the underwear, under the pants.
- What if you’re wearing boxers?
  
  Those are underwear.
I'm guessing for the handjob one, it's that hand is over clothing with the duck under clothing.

For the 69 one, I'm guessing it's positioning.
lol guys he's never done an over under.

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