Respect isn't earned. You receive the amount of respect you give.

Slightly disagree.

Every time you interact with someone you should give them a base level of respect.

No. This is true for the first meeting with someone. After that the level of respect is based on their previous behaviour.

Regularly act like a shithead, zero respect required.

Respect is earned. If you don't treat other people, animals, public property etc with respect, you deserve none in return.

Your title contains two opposing statements. Giving respect is earning respect.

Respect has to be EARNED Sweet, just like money. 💵

That's what I tell my students, "I will have exactly as much respect for you as you have for me."

Respect, Loyalty and Love are all things that can't be earned, can't be bought, can't be expected, can't be demanded.

You can only give them.

Ask me how I know you've never worked a service job.

What about the respect given to an individual because of its status in society? There are certain people that have a base level of respect because of their seniority, job or role during a period of time.

Those people may or may not show the same amount of respect towards others as is shown to them in general. And I dare say, there will be people willing to defend them even if they are not up to expectations, just because they have that seniority/job/role.

Take for instance:

• Some politicians
• Some celebrities
• Some senior members of an organisation, like CEOs, CTOs, senior managers, etc.

It's also not an equal trade, so no one gets it wrong. Not treating someone with respect won't get them to respect you, but treating someone with respect won't necessarily get them to respect you, either.

For any young autists that needed it spelled out. Keywords being "treat them with a base level of respect."

IMHO a base level of respect should always be given. This base level is earned by existing as a being with thoughts and emotions. The way a person acts, any social standing, etc. can then lead to additional respect on top of that, but the level cannot fall below the base.

I also believe that in a first interaction with a person, you should start at the base level always, regardless of any prior knowledge about social standing etc. This also helps to define the base level in a meaningful way, e.g. if this is the level of respect I award my new boss, this is also the level of respect I should award a random homeless person

There are different types of respect, though.

Achievements garner respect, even if the person is a real asshole and terrible human being the rest of the time. Many musicians fall under this category.

Then you have genuinely good people who are respected for that, but not because they've achieved something extraordinary. Many ordinary people who are known in their community for being kind and generous often earn this type respect.

Then you have the rare case of someone who is both an amazing person and has achieved something that can be respected. Keanu Reeves fits here.

Another forms of respect is one where someone who has earned a title, commands a form of automatic respect from people: doctors, judges, etc.

I can go on, but you get the point.

"Respect that is earned" is often the respect you get from people ABOVE YOU, and rarely the other way around, unless you fall into one of the above categories. A teacher, for example should be respected by their students, but students don't automatically get respect from their teacher unless they have earned it (through effort, grades, etc.).

I wish that were true. It feels like many people respect certain individuals, at least seem to outwardly exhibit respect, who are rude and who openly disrespect others. Perhaps with the dynamics of power or individuals need to belong this true, or even fake, respect is given to those who do give respect in return. We can all think of a mainstream figure or even an individual at work that people show respect to regardless of their toxicity and lack of returning respect.

I approach it as I respect everyone until I have a reason not to. You don’t earn respect, you lose it.

Ever heard of the respect bank?

I see too many people claiming respect and treating others as nothingness. It's not a form of earning, get respect is almost always a villain's claim from villains people.