I read the meme as a quick poking fun at spouse’s blind conviction - and the consequences when you put “being right” above all else (such as being kind, understanding, or compromising). Sure it may be gendered, but even for cisgenders, wife could still mean two women.
And just because I did not interpret any overt “wife hate” does not mean a meme doesn’t have roots in it.
Would you mind providing context or a source for your conclusion? I’m genuinely not looking for an argument. It sounds like social justice is important to you. One of the transformative tools of change to that end is education.
It is funny (though I kind of wish OP would've thrown her out instead, that's what really winning looks like), women are the most entitled creatures in the world and they sure as hell act like it.