nipple orgasm
nipple orgasm
My wife loves nipple stimulation and we dabble in light bdsm together (we’re both switches). Planning a session and am willing to pick up some equipment if needed but I want to get her to orgasm from nipple stimulation only. It’s something she’s mentioned she’d like to try so I want to use this kink session to give it a try. It’ll be fun whether we get there or not.
We have a nice massage table that she’ll be restrained to with arms and legs open. She will also be blindfolded and gagged (gently). I have nipple pumps so I planned to start with those while she’s blindfolded and restrained to increase blood flow and sensitivity. After that point, I’m not really sure what to use to get her there.
Women of Lemmy, any advice after that point? What usually gets you to orgasm from nipple play only? Vibrator? Weighted clamps? Any guidance on what does it for you?
Sensitivity varies a lot from person to person, and some people that are pretty sensitive still won't reach orgasm that way. For others, myself included, it is possible and even pretty damn easy, and honestly fingers alone are plenty. Gentle flicking, grabbing at the whole breast, and circling the araeolae does the trick generally, but it's generally a full body experience for girls so stimulating her elsewhere (neck, torso, legs, etc) helps too. Vibrators don't work quite as well there for me, though they do still feel good. Nipple pumps are a good idea! My partner uses clamps and that also tends to make them pretty sensitive - could be an option depending on if she leans masochist at all.
Have fun!! Sounds like she's in for a good time 😁
Thanks for the response! She’s naturally pretty sensitive there so I won’t overdo the pumping..too much!
Great tips, thanks!
When we were trying to do the same for our girlfriend we ultimately had luck using tongue and vibrator at the same time...Either one on each nip or if you can pull it off both on the same one. Try to alternate and give the areas around some attention too if she likes that. Can be kinda like a clit where too much for too long can get kinda...overwhelming in a non orgasmic way. Girlfriend likes sucking and lite biting on them so that helped too. She likes lighter touch with the wand while for myself i occasionally like to press the wand up against the underboob and experiment with speed until the wavelength is just right to stimulate out to the nipple/areola. The indirectness of it can be a nice 'surprise' and keep things free 'on top' for whatever implement you wanna use.
Not female, but the Wartenberg pinwheel is my favourite toy for sensation play. The single wheel style is surprisingly versatile, roll it around for a prickly feeling or tilt it to the side and drag for a scratching sensation. The back end is cool and smooth, bring some ice/ice water with you to make it properly cold and an excellent contrast to say, a nice warm tongue.
Great idea! I’ve always been curious about using one. I’ll pick one up to try out!