Didn't know that was common, i always feel weird telling people because it's like a hard no for me and sometimes people think i'm joking or something. Sucks, i really wish i could enjoy seeing other people's tums and cool piercings.
When we were trying to do the same for our girlfriend we ultimately had luck using tongue and vibrator at the same time...Either one on each nip or if you can pull it off both on the same one. Try to alternate and give the areas around some attention too if she likes that. Can be kinda like a clit where too much for too long can get kinda...overwhelming in a non orgasmic way. Girlfriend likes sucking and lite biting on them so that helped too. She likes lighter touch with the wand while for myself i occasionally like to press the wand up against the underboob and experiment with speed until the wavelength is just right to stimulate out to the nipple/areola. The indirectness of it can be a nice 'surprise' and keep things free 'on top' for whatever implement you wanna use.
When my girlfriend first brought up ear stuff i was...skeptical but it's been surprisingly good and there's so much stuff you can do :)
i do yeah, i didn't get them until i was older though. Just figured everyone saw like that... Eventually i couldn't read what was on the board in my uni classes. Unsure if it developed before or after that 🤔
Could be part of it but i think it's more that there's a lot of nerves near the eyes and it does something for me on a kink level at times.
And nope, no gender for the most part. i've had estrogen dominant and testosterone dominant parts of my life, tried progesterone for a while. Still just not into it. Before all that they were sensitive it hurt a bit but now it's not nearly as bad.
i like a lot of the usual things so i'll skip those. One of the ones that people are usually confused about or think is a joke: the bridge of my nose. Like right where it meets the forehead. Something about pressure or being held there just feels really good and safe. It's like i can turn my mind off a bit and just enjoy whatever other sensations are going on.
On the flip side i don't enjoy nipple stuff at all. i want to get it but it just doesn't feel interesting. It's kinda fun if someone wants to torment me though, it's a bit like being tickled?
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