As a female have you ever actually felt the difference when having intercourse with a penis with a larger than normal circumference?

I suggest not referring to women as "females". Many find that to be de-humanizing.

The question itself is fine.

My god, is every word going to get canceled eventually?

When did using the term male and female become problematic?
- It became problematic when misogynists began using the term female as a way to dehumanize women. These men feel the need to blame all of their problems on women while simultaneously believing that a woman will also solve all their problems. It's an easy outlet to channel their rage while accepting zero responsibility for their own actions.
- When people started having so little going on in their lives that they began manufacturing reasons to get outraged for other people.
- At least 10 or 15 years ago was when I first got informed about it. It's likely been problematic for much longer. Its really not that hard to use the word "women" instead. Usually when people refer to men they use the word "men", so it's only fair to use women also. Females feels a bit icky tbf. Like women are a different species or something.
- It is linguistically problematic to use adjectives as nouns AFAIK.
It's always a bit sus, but I try to give the benefit of the doubt at first. I haven't creeped their post history yet to see if they're misogynist yet.
- I generally find that a gentle reminder helps people who are not a problem, and quickly reveals those that are the problem.
I think it's a tongue in cheek response to this post, rather than being shitty:

!https://lemmy.world/post/12482467
- This post was the first to be made. I think the other was made to get a rise out of "snowflakes" or whatever.
  
  The thing is that this post isn't even shitty. The question is both fine and valid, and the OP hasn't done anything terrible either. I just like pointing out things to improve communication.
The suspect is a six foot, white male

Yes of course, everyone has different preferences, however thicker feels better than longer (for me). Bottoming out isn't a fun experience at all 😐 a thicker penis gives better orgasms 🤷‍♀️

My SO likes a thicker penis and that has influenced my opinion in what I like about a penis. As a guy, seeing a woman stretch is more appealing than half a penis in a vagina, unable to get deeper.
- Exactly, it feels better when you can enjoy it all!

Wow most of this thread is about the way it's asked but yes, up to a point more girth is very , very good. Obviously there's a limit, most don't enjoy fisting and I'm pretty sure nobody likes having a baby, it's not a bigger is better situation.

I will say that the best lover I had was hung thinner and longer which is the opposite of my preference so it's not a requirement, nothing like that, but thicker than average and not too long feels best to me, everything else held constant.

Absolutely, thicker penises make me feel more full and makes it easier to cum. Length is not as important.

Absolutely, 100%. It of course depends on how aroused/wet I am, but there is a very tangible difference in every size.

What is your preferred size?

Honestly, have been with a girl that’s been with a big dick and my dick which is 6 1/2 inches but my dick was fine every time I always made her come. It’s all about how you use it. She said the guy with a big dick didn’t know how to use it so I think it comes down to, don’t get me wrong I would love to have a giant dick just to show off, but I’m happy with my 6 1/2 inch dick I’ve never had any complaints