my sister is dating an ex-idf soldier (american who went over, colonized for a bit, and came back), which is almost worse in my opinion. I was hoping they would break up (still have a chance, they are only a couple months in and have already been on-off), but idk what I'll say to him if i ever have to meet him.
if the first words out of his mouth aren't "oh my god I was so young and stupid and I am spending as much time and money and energy to rectify my mistake" then my next words will make my sister probably never want to talk to me ever again lol.
“You’re gonna cut me off just because my bf specifically went over to Germany and was a part of the Einsatzgruppen for a couple years, what’s the big deal?”
Tell your sister you will never attend any family events with this man or talk to him ever, and ask if she wants that for the future and him splitting the family apart