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I have a secret. I'm not autistic. I catch every hint. I just didn't care about romance in this world where everything I do is compelled by someone else. I'll never have kids. On top of all that, it's extra trouble no matter how you cut it.
At least you go into it with open eyes, zen like? Hope you still have something that makes you happy.
Yeah I can be happy at times, but that doesn't make up for the extreme lack of real freedom.
/r/im14andthisisdeep (or the lemmy equivalent)
Am sort in the same position right now. Even though I do catch hints sometimes, but most of the times I miss them. Even then, rare that they are with ages passing, I still look at every potential relationship as losing freedom. It would be nice to have someone next to you, but all the drama and dedication that comes with it is hardly ever justified in my head. Not to mention family. Am right where I want in my life. I have enough money to fulfill all my dreams and most importantly I have time to fulfill them.
Just a hint; there are people like you in the opposite gender too.
I have no issues with that. Everyone is free to do with their lives whatever they want.
Not issues, just that they might prefer the direct approach, withouth drama, in an open relationship, too.
Wish I ran more into those kind of girls here.