there's a reason it's "hard out there" you know (OC)
there's a reason it's "hard out there" you know (OC)
This comment section: "Actually I'm pretty sure the bike fell over for reasons unrelated to the stick"
In this thread: User ThuleanPerspective apparently losing their fucking minds and then having their entire account comment history removed. I've never been so intrigued to know what crazy nonsense this person posts.
Update: Looked closer at their history. Managed to comment in dozens of threads per minute. Likely a bot that got removed. That's more boring than I'd hoped.
Backwards thinking.
Andrew Tate isn't creating these young men out of well adjusted people.
Young men today face a mountain of issues with zero sympathy from the people or institutions around them. And grifters prey on these men.
Having grown up in the "teach boys not to rape" era of progrssive rhetoric, it's actually insane to see all these people just insist being in a guy's world is all sunshine and rainbows and all these men are just awful people falling of their own accord.
Young men get told some pretty damaging things growing up, even from progressive people.
Everyone has problems, lots of people are coming of age all kinds of fucked up, and we can't fix this by implying it's all their own doing.
I’ve gotten all of my opinions from twitch streamers, and suddenly I’m miserable!
Man some parts of this thread got weird
Had an older co-worker who kept saying that Andrew Tate had some real gems and that he was just telling young men to give up videogames and hit the gym if they wanted some self worth.
So one day I looked him dead in the eye and gave him my best impersonation of a 1950's radio voice and said. " Young ladies if you don't work on refining and improving your womanly figure with clean living and labourous exercise and not stop wasting your time reading novels then how will you ever expect to catch a husband?!"
I would like to say that I scored a point but he just sputtered and went on being horrible.
The comments are quite saddening, and also quite worrying.
This isn't to put women's issues down, but men have problems too. There's a reason why young men turn to these grifters and get manipulated by them.
Even above all of that, assuming you don't agree, it's a problem. We're building up generations of uneducated and toxic men led by these role models. We can't just shrug that off and say it's not our issue, because at some point it is going to be our issue.
I'm not really in those circles but I feel like the timeline is wrong here. I don't think young men see these figures, then venture out parroting them and crash their metaphorical bicycle. I think the bicycle crash is what makes them seek out that content. Maybe that's how it's working with very young men who are just now starting to talk to girls, idk.
The problem from where I stand is that conventional advice on how to get attention from women doesn't work like it used to. Young men are entering the world and finding that they're just not as attractive as their mothers have been telling them their whole life, and setting yourself up to have a decent income isn't the selling point that the older generation told us it was.
So you either focus on other areas of your life and maybe you happen into some kind of relationship, or you look to adapt to this world of dating apps and hook-ups and you probably end up unsatisfied for a number of reasons, and that's when someone turns to the manosphere.
Some men are looking for a "hack" that will let them dominate the "meta." They think life is just like video games. You can see them angrily talking about women while the stream themselves playing games.
The problem is, people (not just women) are generally interested in people that are interesting. Being interesting requires time and effort.
Much easier to be told there is ONE SIMPLE HACK.
For me, the reason it is hard out there is because I am super careful when trying to pick someone up and they end up mistaking my pickup lines for friendly banter and I end up getting friendzoned.
Plus I am super choosy myself and take long to crush on someone and then take super long to get over a crush. (o﹏o)
But I agree that listening to toxic males like Tate will likely not make it easier.
Because these men are insecure in one way or another. Even though many of them are privileged and have good looks, it's still not enough for them. They're always looking to prove themselves to people who don't care about them, and impress people they don't like.
And it isnt? But for other reasons. A lot of times I found women not sharing the same interests I have. And there is a extremely hard competition. For me its like the job rat race. I will not compete, take your "piece of meat", your "trophy" and enjoy it. Not misunderstand me, I just not dispute with anyone for a job a women or really anything else thats the trap of life.
When has Joe Rogan ever said anything even slightly similar to Andrew Tate?
You're comparing a left wing guy in favor of medicare for all to a right wing guy that did human trafficking
the solution is simple. Just be yourself.
Show the same respect you want from others and be friendly. But if you don't get that respect back, it's probably smart to disengage with whoever is being mean to you.
Get a dog and take walks through areas where lots of people will be. Statistics have shown that when a guy has a friendly and cute dog with him and he starts chatting up a woman, he's much more likely to get her number and get a date.
And another pro tip! dating app profile pictures should have at least one picture of you with your dog.
and on dating apps, practice good typing etiquette.
I'm not a Rogan meathead, but women are absolutely super choosey these days. Dating apps have given women an inflated sense of their own (dating) worth, and they largely want tall, handsome, well-off, slightly older men.
Of course I'm painting with a broad brush here, but this post is talking in generalities anyway.