Yeah, I've heard getting water in restaurants is weird in several countries in Europe. Sparkling water is apparently default in some places (italy I think?).
I remember my mom having to order "Leitungswasser" whenever we went to a restaurant when I was a kid. And ice in drinks isn't a thing there, either (or wasn't then, at least).
No, it's not. People will complain regularly about places like Burger King and McDonald's who throw ice cubes into drinks. I, personally, hate it as well. I don't want my water close to the freezing point, and I would rather not get bumped int the teeth by lumps of frozen water that dilute my drink and hurt my teeth.