Plus, you're not owed a date just because you think you otherwise deserve consideration. Superficial or not, people are entitled to decide what relationships they want to engage with upon whatever criteria they want.
Might mean they miss out on certain experiences, but that's not your problem.
Meanwhile if I look like one of those great danes that thinks it's a chihuahua in the lap of any man under 6 foot and few have considered that unthreatening.