so, it turns out my sibling, after college, they became fearful for their (and our family's) life and started pressuring my family. They are controlling me, my grandmother, and my mom.
Recently, I've seen this manifest in their confrontations.
- They says something ridiculous (usually about leaving the door unlocked for 10 secconds; not looking behind enough; ).
- I prove them wrong;
- They gets mad and insist being right.
- I slowly get angered when they keeps insisting I'm wrong
- then I get uncomfortable and angered so I request to end the conversation and they refuse and insist on me "listening to them" (repeat, multiple times)
- I enforce my boundaries (usually when I get harassed).
- They harass and try to assult me (they broke the door in my room).
This happened in the past few months…
Well, my mom (a "mental health" therapist, ugh) is basically not doing a thing to fix their problems (anger management therapy); my mom instead just coddles them and blames me for starting them up, when they are pressuring me and our family. (Why am I surprised? Christian liberal-supporters who haven't read the bible, get mad when their children curse (but nor anyone else), and overstock on food; turn out to be garbarge parents and enablers…)
My aunt went on about how "I need to bond with my family and work together" (which really just means "do as they say").
Grandmother cant do a thing about it; because she's weak.
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Also, I'm thinking about signing out for good; if I keep posting; I might actually dox myself.
The fuck is OP's problem? He cooked for himself, not you; and he didnt pester you to cook.
Also, naan bread requires cooking… so either he cooked it or ordered it. Either way, who cares?
Before the ukraine war, I noticed that a bunch of insults in that game were targetting Russians like saying SUKA BLYAT in a mocking tone.
Some of The U.S fan base generalize(d) russians as if they're like this.
I'm confessing this now, so I can still maintain my accountability (and not become a piece of shit).
I found porn (firstly face sitting and then wetting) when I was 13; I wish I didn't. I was trying (and unsurprisingly failed) to 'get' a girlfriend. (Retrospect, Big mistake was thinking to 'get' one as if they are objects to obtain like game rewards; I learnt that lesson, lol.)
I still watch it 5 years later… that was a mistake (albeit unconcious, but still my fault) as I am aware of what porn addicts become if they don't stop.
I heard that porn was bad through yourbrainonporn, but some of studies had low sample sizes and subjective measures for testing that I jumped to the conclusion that porn wasn't harmful.
Well, I'm realizing that lacking a source doesn't automatically invalidate someone; and that the harm done is through spreading misogynist ideology.
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Of course, (usonian) capitalism is part of the problem. The people are heavily isolated by car-centric transportation, isolated through work, the capitalist state (police and psychiatry), etc. Unsurprisingly, as long as those systems exists, I'm likely going to struggle worse with fighting porn addiction; as I have no consistent acquaintances.
I would have told my parents when this first started; but I feared getting abused (this is the reactionary U.S we're talking about).
I wish I was born in the USSR, where they banned porn. It would have been great to never deal with that.
The risks and harms associated with drinking alcohol have been systematically evaluated over the years and are well documented.
What a surprise. /j
This video as an example has the "mEn'S rIgHtS!" sexist rhetoric of "equality".
Also:
- https://libreddit.spike.codes/r/fightporn/comments/vjytb8/somewhere_in_russia_a_fight_over_a_woman/ (Fatphobia)
- https://libreddit.spike.codes/r/fightporn/comments/10e1r9l/kim_deserved_that_broken_nose/ ("mUh MeN's RiGhTs")
Well, guess I'm screwed since I bump my head, semicommonly…
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Also, this is NPR, so it's unsurprising they whitewashed the U.S military.
Thiamine deficiency impacts mitochondrial functioning via multiple mechanisms. A new discovery shows just how important thiamine is to mitochondrial health.
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Good old child labor in the civilized™ west!
Most people in the "left-wing" of computer science tend to fall for bourgeois-legalistic fallacies and idolize the GNU Project and the General Public License, talking...
I'm in agreement!
Mpox (monkeypox) is a viral disease that occurs mostly in central and western Africa. It was first identified in laboratory monkeys. However, it is much more common among animals such as rats, mice, rabbits, and the African Squirrel.
cross-posted from: https://lemmy.ml/post/617067
> U.S already has COVID, imagine the shit show that will happen when Monkeypox continues to spread like crazy. Yet here we are and the U.S still doesn't seem to give a shit. > > Sending love to the immunocompromised; they do not deserve this.
Mpox (monkeypox) is a viral disease that occurs mostly in central and western Africa. It was first identified in laboratory monkeys. However, it is much more common among animals such as rats, mice, rabbits, and the African Squirrel.
U.S already has COVID, imagine the shit show that will happen when Monkeypox continues to spread like crazy. Yet here we are and the U.S still doesn't seem to give a shit.
Sending love to the immunocompromised; they do not deserve this.
Given that international auxiliary languages allow for more efficient cooperation; I think more people should consider using an easily learnable IAL, like Esperanto.
IALs would reduce the English dominance that gate-keeps software development to English persons; and hence allow more potential software developers to better develop software. The English language is mostly dominant in software development because of linguistic imperialism.
It's one study, so more repetitive studies are needed, but I'm unsurprised.
The Minecraft Archive provides a central place find mods for old versions of Minecraft.
The ban reason:
> reason: constant ableism, previously temp banned for it and returned with no change. Pushing a problematic narative that belittles mental illness, very dangerous stuff. There's no place on lemmygrad for this kind of harmful content.
What fucking ableism was there?! I was advocating for patient rights and the proper use of the scientific method!
I stated that mental disorders can't be objectively falsified as they have no assigned mechanism and was formed from assertions; thus they are unscientific. Is that "ableist" to them?!
What "problematic" narrative was I spreading?! I was promoting skepticism of Psychiatric treatments and proper use of the scientific method.
They just can't handle the truth can they? Honestly, fuck them anyway! Ok that was bit rude, but If they don't even know what science is; how could I expect them to fairly analyze my criticisms of psychiatry?
Instead of improving themselves or bothering to explore the anti-psychiatry movement; they just censor me off the platform for criticisms of Psychiatry and falsely claim that I'm ableist.
EDIT: And they do the same bullshit of calling critics of Psychiatry, not even just anti-psychiatry advocates, "dangerous". Straight up calling skepticism of an unscientific field dangerous huh?!
What fucking harm was there?! Barely anyone even listened to me in the first place; and I was posting scientific studies that showed a different conclusion to what the Psychiatric institution propagates. How am I harming anyone?!
If science is defined as some kind of systematic study of observed experience applied to hypotheses or theories, and then confirmation or refutation of those hypotheses or theories, followed by new hypotheses or theories that are further tested and refined by new observations – if this is the core o...
None of the DSM editions had ever been scientific lmao.
> "our understanding of the biology of mental disorders has been slow in coming."
There's no biology in mental disorders; none of them have objective phenomena and they are arbitrarily given and created.
What a surprise: consuming drugs that damage the body increases mortality.
Don't need to make the conditions for needed health if you can just scam people into getting them amirite capitalists? /s
A pro-science marxist who is labeled with Autism and ADHD. Psychiatry is a psuedoscientific tool of oppression mostly used by the bourgeoisie and we should oppose it!
Dealing with silent reflux.
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