Funnily enough, there’s someone like that for me who my mind keeps wandering back to … even though I’m married.

So for an attractive woman I bump into or see on the street, I am With the rest of these guys - I will take a moment to appreciate the goods without being a creepy perv.

But, this is someone I would bump into at school pickup and there was definitely some chemistry, though we didn’t act on it. What makes her stick is really not anything special that she did or wore specifically. It was more about her going out of her way to engage with me after I broke the ice (5-10) minute conversations waiting for our kids. I can’t speak for all men, but I enjoy attention from the opposite sex - probably a whole lot to unpack there - and having someone that was pretty, knew how to dress well in ways to subtly show off what she was working with certainly helped, though I assume pheromones played the biggest role.

What I would say is that, if you have someone specific whose attention you’d like to catch, engage with them in a genuine manner and lightly flirt. If you’re looking to stir more … primal thoughts there are some more obvious steps you can take.

Anyway, my two cents at least. Would be interested to hear the co text of this!