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Neurodiverse communication

If someone thinks that autists have trouble communicating, they just need to see us talk to each other!

(Also, I often identified as an alien as a kid.)

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Because it takes slightly less mental energy to sit and stress than to do the thing.
  • "In a world of disorder I lie awake

    Knowing there's nothing I can do

    In a world of disorder I lie awake

    Knowing there's something I can do"

    Disorder - Chiasm

    There's different ways to interpret these, but given the topic here I've found another one.

  • Because it takes slightly less mental energy to sit and stress than to do the thing.
  • I just finished a book called How to keep house while drowning by KC Davis. It's written for people with ADHD, autism, ptsd, handicapped, etc. anyone with challenges to getting things done, and this is one of the big themes in it, basically how to be kind to yourself. But there are lots of angles and tips and topics in there. Even witten in short, easy to read chapters. Should check it out.

  • Decentralized Encrypted P2P Chat
  • All right I tried out the live app, to connect my phone to my desktop. Couldn't get it to work. Tried the link method both ways, once normal and once animals. Tried the QR code too. All it does is bring me to a "contacts" page, which is essentially the same screen, or to a "new peer" one. Tried looking at the docs but didn't see what I might be doing wrong there. Do certain plug ins mess it up like ublock origin? Anything else?

  • Decentralized Encrypted P2P Chat
  • It's an interesting idea. If it can make it easier to share files with friends then I'd be in. Voice and video have always been challenging as I understand it, so I'm expecting that to come later. Very ambitious, but cool if you can pull it off!

  • My Panel
  • It's not bad, but personally I prefer to keep my task bar separate and horizontal, which I don't think would work with this. Plus my ultra-wide would make it more work to reach than the top and bottom.

    I'd post my desktop but it's been getting so buggy lately. Task bar flickering, widgets getting squished. But I can't even look into those yet because I'm trying to figure out why my desktop sessions aren't being saved or restored anymore. Is this just life using Tumbleweed?

  • [Solved] Tumbleweed update killed my gaming

    Has anyone else had this problem? I updated my openSuse Tumbleweed today (restart required), and now none of my games work. Most are through Steam, so at first I thought it was that. But I have Cyberpunk through GOG launched with Heroic. And even more, Alien Arena has the same problem, so it's not even a proton issue (I did try changing proton versions before the other games too).

    What happens is that either they freeze entirely, crash to desktop (after a short time), or freeze then crash. It seems like the bigger the game, the more quickly it crashes, which makes me think memory issue. This seemed moreso since ARK didn't even get to the launch menu screen, just played some music while my desktop froze, and I could see my memory widget maxed out. Then the music fizzled and then CTD.

    I've never run into a problem like this and have no idea where even to look.

    Edit: Another update today and now half of my games work. Even weirder.

    Edit: Solved: Was a bug in kernel 6.8.9. Rebooted into 6.8.8 and all is well. Guess We'll see how the next one goes.

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    Has anyone ever seen the TV show "Scorpion"?

    It's a bit of an older show (2014-2018), and while it doesn't mention autism specifically, it does center around several people who are clearly neurodiverse, using their unique strengths to solve a wide range of complex and difficult problems while also trying to navigate their individual challenges when interacting with the rest of society.

    When I watched this, it was well before I knew any of this stuff, and indeed research was undoubtedly less informed as well. So I wanted to see if anyone here that knows more than me has seen it and can give any opinions on it through the lens of our modern understanding of autism and neurodiversity. Was the show an excellent demonstration of ND people, their strengths and challenges? Or was is completely off the mark? Perhaps somewhere in the middle? Or perhaps even negative and perpetuating outdated stereotypes? Or is the show just too old and I'm talking to a field of crickets?

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    Patholigization

    I'm somewhat new to learning about autism and neurodiversity, but even before that I was of the opinion that some of what is called "mental illness" wasn't really, but just seemed that way because of how society is optimized for certain personality types. Now I'm trying to figure out if autism and any other ND types fit this idea.

    So I wanted to gauge the community and find out how popular/accepted this idea is. Do you see these as inherent handicaps, like being blind, or just circumstantial, like say being 8 feet tall (side effects of gigantism notwithstanding)? Or, now that I think of it, perhaps like being 8 feet tall with the side effects: are they not inherent handicaps themselves, but often or always come with inherent side effects?

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    [Solved] Should new distro for dual boot be changing my ssd id numbers?

    Ok, so I had 1 ssd with Kubuntu and windows on it. I got a second ssd and I want to put opensuse on it, dual booting (well, triple). The problem is, when I went to install it, it showed the id of my two ssds as opposite of what the partition manager in Kubuntu says. I.e., Kubuntu calls the first one nvme0n1 and my new ssd nvme1n1, while the opensuse installer is calling the old ssd nvme1n1 and the new one nvme0n1. I know because it shows the existing partition sizes on them that way, and recognizes that windows and kubuntu are on the old ssd.

    So is this normal? Is this ok? Is it ok to just install it with the ssd names this way? Would that confuse kubuntu at all, or are the two OSes ok with calling them different things? I just don't want the installer to overwrite anything on my existing partitions.

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    [Solved] Can dual distros share /home?

    Briefly: I'm running Kubuntu right now, just installed a second ssd. If I install another distro (say opensuse) on it, can I tell it to use the same /home that kubuntu is using (which is on a separate partition and drive)? Actually looking to switch distros, but I want to keep all my data where it is on the bigger hdd, while moving games to the ssd.

    If you want/need more details:

    • ssd1: windows, kubuntu /
    • hdd1: kubuntu (opensuse) /home
    • ssd2: (goal) opensuse /, second partition for games
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    Seeking advice for new ssd and distro

    Not choosing them, I’ve done that. I just want to make sure that I install them right and am not missing anything. What I’m doing is installing a second ssd on my desktop, and then I want to install a new distro (opensuse) on it, to use instead of my current one.

    What I have now is 1 ssd, with partitions for linux (kubuntu), windows (10), and swap, and an hdd with my home dir on it. What I want is to install opensuse on my new ssd, have a second partition on there for games, keep my hdd home dir, and then be able to use the first ssd for more space, probably games too (and finally ditch windows!).

    Things I’m not sure about include:

    1. can I keep my current home and use it with the new distro?
    2. What do I do with the second partition on the new ssd I want for games? I.e. How do I configure it, the same as home, just call it something different? Same goes for the new space on the first ssd obviously.
    3. Is there anything special I need to do to install an ssd since I haven’t done that before? Is it basically the same as installing a hdd?
    4. New ssd (Firecuda 530 1TB) has encryption; how will that work? Is it all automatic, or do I need to do anything special with it?

    TIA

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    Advice wanted for a newbie on project

    So to start, I know pretty little about 3d printing, which is why I came here. I have seen the machines work, know that you need a file, there's different materials, not much else. I'm not really looking to get into this as a hobby as I don't really have the time, and certainly don't have the money (maybe later if things change). I just have this one thing (at the moment anyway) that I would like printed, but I have a couple of questions to see if I even want to proceed or not. I just plan on getting some local company to make it for me.

    So here is what I'd like to make: https://sketchfab.com/3d-models/elegant-lightsaber-hilt-19b183269b5d4577a44f3152b15df9a5

    It comes in an obj file which unless I'm mistaken should be enough for me to have. If not, I know about online file converters to make it slt.

    This is intended to be a hand-held prop, not just a display model. So my first question is, is that even feasible? I don't know how strong things like this are. I'm not going to be hitting anything with it, but a little bit of waving around I think would be in order.

    Assuming that's ok, what material should I use? Not entirely sure I even get a choice but I think so?

    Another question I have is about painting. I've seen painting guides online, but one question I have I didn't find an answer to is again, about it being hand-held. I don't want to use a paint that will come off or smudge with sweaty palms. Are any kinds better for that than others? Are any?

    And how close could I likely make it look like in the link? It doesn't have to be exact, but there's metallic parts, glassy parts, kinda gives a glowy impression... or is this going to be too hard for someone with no experience? (I've painted a couple of model kits when I was a kid.)

    I realize that this may not all be feasible, but I thought I'd ask here first before asking people who will want my money. :p

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