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How Mark greets the fediverse at the door
  • Jesus christ, dude. I'm here scrolling through posts at 2 AM in a dark room because I'm having trouble sleeping, and this picture scared the shit out of me. RIP my chances of going to sleep any time soon.

  • What is a fun childish thing you still do as an adult?
  • Too many things, sporadically!

    I tend to hop between different craft types randomly, depending on my current interest. But some of the ones I've enjoyed at various times the last year or so are crocheting (learning how to make little stuffed animals right now!!), watercolor and gouache painting, putting miniature kits together, origami, simple jewelry making, pottery, etc! :)

  • What video game have you played the most, that you think is garbage and no one else should ever play?
  • That makes sense. I agree that opening card packs and whatnot was part of the excitement and draw. I wonder if there's a way to get the best of both worlds. Maybe a (one-time) paid game rather than free to play, and still have packs and rarity and whatnot, but lock packs behind game experience/quests/challenges/winning/etc, rather than having them available to buy.

    I know that probably wouldn't be a popular model for companies trying to wring out as much money as possible from the almost-basically-gambling model where you can buy packs, but I feel like as a player I'd like that a lot more!

  • Does it feel like the fediverse is exclusively used by older tech nerds?
  • Yep. Certified non-tech nerd here. And not quite 30, either.

    I was awfully close to not figuring out Lemmy enough to make an account and participate.

    I still don't understand exactly what's going on, but I can confirm that my first time visiting was extremely confusing. So many terms I was completely unfamiliar with, and no clear way for me to jump in easily (like you were describing with having to make important decisions before signing up/understanding). Truly the only reason I ended up successfully making it here was that I saw a post on the instance I ended up joining, welcoming reddit refugees so I figured - well, I guess I could try this one. And that was after I had searched around online to figure out what the heck the fediverse, instances, etc, were.

    The barrier to entry is really high for those of us with little to no tech knowledge. And I was really motivated, I reeeeally wanted to commit to leaving reddit. I imagine those who are considering joining but aren't quite as motivated just won't make it. :(

  • They don't get it
  • Yeah they're great! I got a super long flat white one and those little white plastic staple things you can lightly hammer into the wall, and ran it along the baseboard of the walls, makes it nearly invisible! It was a bit tedious to do (which is why I haven't yet redone it in the place I live now, although I will), but honestly I super recommend it. My partner wanted to try and run cords through the walls but I was way too nervous about what might go wrong, so found this solution instead lol

  • Reddit's Traffic is Down 3.36% Month-Over-Month, According to SimilarWeb
  • OMG. And this is how I learned that there is a button to view only my subscribed communities. I can't believe I didn't realize that before. I was confused why so few of my subscribed communities were showing up on my front page, while communities I wasn't interested in were, but I didn't stop to think about it enough to realize there was another option I hadn't tried.

    Lord. Anyway, thank you for mentioning that, otherwise who knows how long it would've been before I finally realized lol.

  • How do you handle / cope with stress?
  • Medicine. Without it, I'm not able to do much of anything, regardless of whether it's a work day or not, or whether I want to do the thing or not. Not sure how helpful that is to hear, though :/

    Also, oopsies, I thought I was in one of the ADHD communities when I wrote my original comment, but apparently not!

  • How do you handle / cope with stress?
  • I have "Do Nothing" days. It's really the only way I survive, honestly.

    During many parts of the year, my job and home lives are extremely hectic and stressful. Whenever I can, I designate a "do nothing" day, which helps my brain actually take advantage of resting that day without thinking "omg I need to do this, and this, and this", etc. Usually it ends up being a Saturday, and while I'd love for it to be weekly, I'd say I have them more like twice a month or so.

    The rules for a Do Nothing day are that I Do Not Do Anything Important, I don't even leave the house - just chill, play video games, read, craft, garden, watch TV, sleep, etc. Whatever feels right. It makes picking back up with the stress the next day much easier to handle. Plus, I find it's really hard for me to ever relax even when I do have a moment to do so, so I would usually waste all that time anyway throughout the week just straight up worrying about what I should be doing. At least by doing this I combine all that time into one day, and I actually use it to relax!

  • What is a fun childish thing you still do as an adult?
  • I have summers off from work (am a teacher), which I COULD be using to get tons of errands done, renovating the house, working out, etcetc. However, I am currently spending it sleeping in, playing too many video games, staying up late, crafting, reading, etc, which is exactly what I did during summer as a kid as well. It's been nice :)

  • What video game have you played the most, that you think is garbage and no one else should ever play?
  • I wish there was a way for games like this to not have an annoying, expensive, ever-changing meta! That's always the reason I end up dropping games. Did the same for Hearthstone and League, it was either too expensive to try and have a feasible deck and/or too difficult to have to constantly keep up with changing metas.

  • What video game have you played the most, that you think is garbage and no one else should ever play?
  • I really miss playing Sims and Sims 2 growing up. That, and the random other Sims games, like Sims Theme Park. I loved those.

    I do still play Sims 4 but MAN the amount of basic game content that is locked behind a million different DLCs is insane.

  • I don't get people that are here in the fediverse and *want to bring over* the content that is on FB, IG, TikTok, etc.
  • But, I think part of the issue is that communities that folks are interested in being a part of, about certain topics/etc, just aren't active enough here yet. I'm glad to see some are growing, and my personal experience is improving over time, but I keep finding communities that look like something I'd love but have zero activity ir content in them. So I do understand folks wanting to fill parts of this with content in general, even if it's content similar to what they would've gotten on Reddit, because content and activity is what will help build those cool communities over time.

    I only wish I had interesting or important things to contribute to the communities I'm interested in, I never know what to say or do to help build a community that's nonexistent or essentially so. 😥 so far I've just been commenting wherever I can, for the most part, hoping that helps.

  • Reddit's Traffic is Down 3.36% Month-Over-Month, According to SimilarWeb
  • No, I agree with you on this also. I am not the original commenter here, but I was just scrolling through "all" and I do agree that it's a little annoying to see ~90% of the page filled with posts about reddit. But I'm also someone willing to participate in discussions about reddit still, at least a little, so I imagine it's way more annoying to those who just want to forget about it.

    I didn't even notice what community or instance this post was in when I opened it to participate in lol

    Not sure there's really a good solution though, and comments/posts from people complaining about everything being about reddit is also adding to the total number of things about reddit. I assume the constant reddit focus will fade out over time as other communities slowly build up more activity.

  • Reddit's Traffic is Down 3.36% Month-Over-Month, According to SimilarWeb
  • Same! I went to check it out earlier and the frontpage had a couple of subreddits I recognized but am not interested in, and the rest were all subreddits I had never heard of before. I also thought the scores seemed weirdly low, but not 100% sure about that since I dont usually pay super close attention. At least the weird vibe was pretty helpful in getting me to hop off, versus getting sucked in to browsing around more.

  • Are you going to try Meta's Threads?
  • I don't know anything about the number of users they're expecting to have with this, but I'll be very surprised if it's a significant number. I just don't get why anyone would want to join it, not only for what it is, but also for the whole facebook/meta nonsense. But I suppose some folks still actively and frequently use Facebook, so what do I know!

  • Are you going to try Meta's Threads?
  • I can't see any reason for me to ever try it. I've got plenty of social media to deal with already, and this doesn't seem to be offering anything new or interesting for me. Plus the creepy permissions even keep me away from joining temporarily out of any curiosity I might have.

  • Through the Fragmentation & other unique games?

    Just picked up Through the Fragmentation during the summer steam sale this year, and have only played a small amount so far today, but it's very... interesting so far. I added it to my wishlist a little while ago when looking around on Steam for unique games that are immersive and/or experiential in some way.

    It's definitely got the "weird" factor so far, and I'm interested to uncover more of the main story and what's going on. So far, I've only finished one "playthrough".

    Anyone else here played this before?

    And, does anyone have any recommendations for similar games, or other games that might fill that "immersive, experiential, unique" niche? I'm sure there's a better definition or genre name for what I'm looking for. Some random games I've enjoyed that sort of fall into this category in my head are things like Firewatch, Before Your Eyes, and Outer Wilds. Almost like, games that pull you into the world, and make it feel like you're really there in some way?

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    What is the difference between "Active", "Hot", and "Top Hour/Day/etc" when browsing Lemmy posts?

    I suspect the meaning is obvious and I'm just being a silly goose, but I've just been sort of bouncing around among them, since I'm not quite sure of the difference.

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