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  • Yeah, I've made that mistake too. Thing is, if you really mean it then waiting until they say those words to you first kinda feels dishonest and manipulative. Like, if you're feeling that crazy feeling it makes you want them to know exactly how you feel and be able to give informed consent to falling in love. You want them to know how you feel because you don't want to be intense and creepy when they maybe think it's just a fling. You want you words to maybe unlock part of them that feels the same way.

    A good suggestion is to not say it during or right after sex in a new relationship.

    So yeah, I've fucked up too by saying 'i love you'. But I've also said it first and started a relationship that was maybe the best I've had.

    I dunno, I guess I think that when you love someone honesty is the best policy. It won't always work out and when it fucks up you'll be hurting - but you'll at least know you were being open, not hiding stuff.

    I hope those words have worked out better for you since!

  • Russia Loses Last Black Sea Missile Ship
  • Has a modern military ever gone up against an enemy using lots of small cheap drones though? I'm sure they have plans in place, just can't recall if they've ever really been tested, aside from Russia with the results we see.

  • You can fit two cars there
  • Yeah even the SUV would be uncomfortably wide on some UK roads, end yet they're getting really common. They're almost all driven by people who don't need a large vehicle.

  • Windows 11 is now automatically enabling OneDrive folder backup without asking permission
  • Yeah, it did this to me a few months back. Got the files back local eventually but it was a big pain in my arse. If I had time to learn another os I'd already be gone. Seems like Microsoft is determined to asset-strip whatever good reputation their product had left.

  • Real-Time Strategy is incredible and you should play it
  • I love RTS but I rarely play it these days because I don't have a lot of screen time. When I have half an hour to pick up my device I'm probably going to play an FPS. I did start a play through of the original homeworld campaigns a while back but I've not had time to progress far.

  • Microsoft insiders worry the company has become just 'IT for OpenAI'
  • Yeah competition won't work in a market where some competitors have such massive amounts of wealth. This is a failure of unrestrained capitalism and it's bad for consumers ultimately.

  • McDonalds removes AI drive-throughs after order errors
  • Isn't this just voice recognition software?

  • Apple Reportedly Suspends Work on Vision Pro 2
  • For one glorious moment of misreading there I thought there was a humane pin strap on.

  • This is my reason for joining "Fuck Cars"
  • I had one, a proton Jumbuck, great little machine. I'm not sure they are still made but you see them second hand occasionally.

  • $843 million lawsuit against Valve already has its own website: "The Steam Claim" accuses the biggest store in PC gaming of "overcharging" players
  • Shame you're getting so downvoted. People are so determined to believe in good philanthropic billionaires that they forget the system that allows the accumulation of such ridiculous wealth doesn't work for nice philanthropic people. It was like this with Elon musk, before he sacked his publicists (my guess) before the cave diver thing. People were saying he was going so save humanity or some shit. All he's done is fuck up twitter. Same with this guy. I use steam and I think my steam deck is a cool little machine but that doesn't inspire me to tongue the sweaty arsehole of an obscenely rich guy.

  • I made peanut tofu stir fry
  • That looks great. I've been rediscovering tofu a bit recently, it's so versatile.

  • Voyager 1 returning science data again
  • Yeah, I had a Sinclair spectrum with 48k ram. Later on I had a BBC B computer that iirc had 32k. It was actually a pretty powerful machine, you could do a lot with it.

  • Woman dies after being hit by police truck on S.C. beach
  • Yeah, my job sometimes requires me to drive round areas where people may be sunbathing. What I do is drive in first gear even if it is frustrating and be observant because I don't want to hit anyone. Seems like this ought to be common sense when you're driving and humans may be lying on the ground.

  • Michigan middle school coach allegedly choked student with shirt in incident caught on surveillance video - ABC News
  • I don't know how many people would be accidentally strangled by their abusers - from what I understand, it takes a fair few minutes and bit of effort to strangle someone to death.

  • YouTube is experimenting with server-side ads
  • Yeah that's what I did when reddit shit the bed. I'm spending the free time with books and getting back into gaming. It's an improvement really.

  • All three game console makers, Nintendo, Microsoft, and Sony, have now abandoned X (formerly Twitter) integration
  • The experience of a news consumer is going to be different from that of a professional journalist. Kinda like the experience of eating a burger is different from working in a kitchen. Yeah, they're two different things, we were talking journalism. Twitter was never great for news as a consumer imo, but it was a very valuable resource for journalists. I'm not sure how good X is for either but I'm pretty sure nether experience will have improved.

  • All three game console makers, Nintendo, Microsoft, and Sony, have now abandoned X (formerly Twitter) integration
  • Your experience as someone who tried it for a week probably doesn't reflect that of people who used it professionally for many years. Part of what made it valuable to media people was the ubiquity of possible sources, but it takes some time and work to develop links to those sources and to the professional contacts who have their own connections to share.

  • Solar modules deployed in France in 1992 still provide 75.9% of original output power
  • That makes sense, but I guess the problem is that they take up a lot of space.