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Are you cisgender? Gender Survey Result: Majority of active Hexbear users say No and Maybe.
  • honestly, it was a year ago and I don’t remember specifics, I just remember there was transphobia from mods and screenshots to back it up.

    I also remember the admins here “forgave” an admin named snow or something (from programming.dev, I think?) for his transphobic responses to a hexbear user, and users here even talked about how hexbear users must be faking transness because they don’t act the same way liberal (conservative) trans people do.

  • Are you cisgender? Gender Survey Result: Majority of active Hexbear users say No and Maybe.
  • also, I don't see how blahaj could be seen as not hard enough on transphobes :p

    iirc the 196 comm had at least one transmed/truscum mod at the time of defederation, plus admins for Blahaj Zone refused to condemn an admin from another instance who said some transphobic shit, including accusing a Hexbear user of pretending to be trans for internet sympathy points or some bizarre shit.

  • Are you cisgender? Gender Survey Result: Majority of active Hexbear users say No and Maybe.
  • Isn’t hexbear like, one of the “transphobe” ones?

    the opposite, actually! Hexbear is rabidly supportive of trans people, and defederated from Blahaj Lemmy over its comparatively lax handling of transphobia.

  • Just watched 'I Saw the TV Glow'
  • I really want to watch it but it left theaters here after like a two-week run.

  • Happy Pride Everyone!
  • it's worth noting that CFA stopped donating to queerphobic organizations awhile back, has a DEI department now, and is one of the few fast food chains not on the BDS boycott list for Palestine. like I get that hating on 'em is a meme but they have good fries and are less problematic than half the other fast food chains at this point...

  • EXO-49 Emancipator Exosuit Now Available
  • the cool thing is these are turret-grade autocannons, not the shoulder-fired version, so they have enough armor pen and damage to handle even heavies given enough hits.

  • bUt BoTh SiDeS dA sAmE
  • nope!

  • bUt BoTh SiDeS dA sAmE
  • Surely some action by the Biden administration is far enough beyond the pale to make you look for a different option, right?

    many liberals do not have a cutoff point here. if Democrats were having people executed in the streets, they would argue that more people would be executed in the streets under Republicans, so leftists who don’t vote Democrat are morally bankrupt and effectively on the side of the Republicans.

    oh, wait, that’s literally their argument for this election, it’s just that said streets and people happen to not be the good ol’ US of A.

  • Is there anything stopping AH from Re-releasing a fork of HD2 as HD3 and putting it on Steam without the PSN requirement?
  • Helldivers is Sony IP, not Arrowhead IP, so no, Arrowhead can’t just release another game in the series without Sony’s involvement.

  • She
  • Yeah, I really do not envy OP her Christianity; I'm so glad I was mostly over that phase of my life by the time I started examining my gender and realizing I wasn't just depressed, but dysphoric.

    EDIT: To clarify, absolutely not saying Christianity (or any religion) is "just a phase" for everyone. Just that it certainly was for me, and I'm happy to be past it and to have partially dealt with the trauma from it.

  • It's just so good
  • Just... get better at placement...?

  • For the Stalwart mains out there
  • not me running eruptor/stalwart like the stalwart was my primary and the eruptor was my support weapon.

    I actually gave up on the order halfway through, ngl. I hate the stalwart so much on higher levels.

  • We actually completed the major order!
  • I dunno on that one, I think it's likely we'd been slowly liberating/defending a handful of planets for the first half of the order's time allotment, and finally pushed them over the line in the latter half.

  • NSFW
    How do you navigate dating and sex as a trans person?
  • FYI: this is not true of PPTV (peritoneal pull-through vaginoplasty), which seems to be one of the better vaginoplasty techniques currently, as it's less finicky than the type of vaginoplasty that uses penis skin.

  • Request: Recommendations for brands for taller builds
  • I've never seen stuff my size in-store, but online they have one of the more inclusive tall size ranges I've seen (a lot of brands assume that if you're tall you're super skinny, while Old Navy's tall line goes up to size 20).

  • Request: Recommendations for brands for taller builds
  • Old Navy's tall line is really good for the prices! All my jeans and a few of my shirts are from them, though I haven't bought anything longsleeve from them yet.

    I've had mixed luck with Long Tall Sally – their sizing is really inconsistent, and returns are rough since they're not US-based. But the couple of items I've bought that have fit well have been nice!

  • Plight of the Transbian
  • It certainly is in some ways; can’t get through a given week without questioning whether maybe I’m just cis and want to be unique or a binary trans woman in denial. But on the other hand, I do have my feeling of simply not fitting into the gender binary to fall back on, which is there even when gender dysphoria and euphoria are not.

  • Plight of the Transbian
  • As somebody transfeminine and nonbinary, this really spoke to me. I think part of why it took me so long to figure out I’m trans is that I don’t want to be super femme 90%+ of the time, I just want to throw on jeans and a tee and not be read as male. Like I’m nonbinary, but I want to present as a tomboy or as close to nonbinary on a female base form as I can get, if that makes sense?

    Anyways the article was excellent and I’m glad I read it.

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