Anyone here blessed/cursed with a naked neighbour? What's the daily experience like?
Anyone here blessed/cursed with a naked neighbour? What's the daily experience like?
Or are you the naked neighbour?
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I'm the naked neighbour
I try to make sure that nobody is adversely affected by my naturist lifestyle. It was easier in my last apartment, because now I'm on the ground floor
Occasionally I forget a window shade, but people don't walk past my apartment and as soon as I realise that I have left something open, I get right on it
Exhibitionism isn't bad in itself, but it should always be with consent
I'll happily be naked around people who are consenting, but I'm disgusted by people who want to "get caught", because they're inflicting themselves on others
I've thrown parties where literally everyone was naked, but I made sure that no neighbours were affected
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Exhibitionism isn’t bad in itself, but it should always be with consent
Why though? Show me anyone who was horribly scarred by seeing someone naked.
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Heh, my naked neighbor story that I just left was about exhibitionist neighbors.
There ended up being non verbal consent, via escalated instances of exhibition on their part with like polite responses (and no objection) on my part. It was never, "want to see us naked and watch us have sex", but it was kinda that in a different way lol.
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Based opinion, that's why we have never tried public sex. We find it hot, but very disrespectful to the people that could be near ourselves and don't really want to watch 2 horny fools fucking raw in full view. At most we've done some kinda sexual play (like her rubbing my dick through my pants under the table or me rubbing and sligthly fingerirng her pussy under her dress while we sit in a corner), but nothing too crazy or evident, and we always make it short. And don't get me wrong, we'd actually love to fuck raw, hard and hot in front of an audience and see how much they like seeing us, but that kind of thing has to be consensual and in the correct place, preferably somewhere private
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Find yourself a sex club. There are good ones and bad ones so do your research, I look for queer inclusiveness and a strong consent policy. Mine has a good 5 minute talk to new members to describe both basic consent and the specific consent rules of the club.
Although to be clear sex and nudist are not the same
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Don't think there are sex clubs in my country, but it's something we'd like to try if we visit the US someday
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In a perfect world, we shouldn't need other people's consent merely to be naked. The reason we do is to be considerate of other people's history of sexual violence and trauma. To that end, our very bodies are criminalized, and I think that is absolutely tragic. We also do it to be considerate of people's mores and values, but FUCK THAT. That is not a sufficient reason, it's accepting someone else's boundary-violating control and oppression, and needlessly stigmatizes our bodies. I don't want to get caught, I want to be accepted.
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In a perfect world, we shouldn’t need other people’s consent merely to be naked
not everyone is aesthetically pleasing to see. Some are the opposite.
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Okay? Tough shit? People and their bodies don't exist to be pleasing to you.
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People don't exist to be sensorally assulted by disgusting looking people either.
I tried to be polite and diplomatic to your worldview, but "tough shit" etc doesn't foster that kind of attitude, learn some manners.
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Damn, you are a dick. And not the friendly, throbbing kind that's fun to play with. More the kind that's dripping gonorrhea on everything.
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disgusting looking people
I like how you have zero issues calling other people's bodies disgusting because they don't please you.
You're kind of a piece of shit.
Like the other commenter said, I would probably find your face disgusting, and others probably would too, but we aren't making you cover it up.
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You can't make an offensive opinion acceptable by using polite words. What if I think your face is unappealing, am I entitled to make you cover up? You having to look at something that you find unaesthetic is not a meaningful objection. Your followup makes clear that you genuinely believe it is. What has to be wrong with a person to think that men with guns should prevent you from having to see a human being that you think is ugly.
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not everyone is aesthetically pleasing to see.
This is a juvenile way of looking at nudity.
I'm a nudist. The majority of naked strangers I see are not conventionally attractive. Ask me how much I care.
I don't.
Because naturism isn't about your body being appealing to others.
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That's the way to go.
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👍👌 That's all I can say
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