If you hear something like that and feel like it is a personal attack, congratulations! You're the reason women don't feel safe walking alone at night.
And yet, for some reason, I don't believe you, and I have a strange feeling that any women you interact with wouldn't believe you either. How the hell did a sexist prick like you get through vetting?
sometimes federated reports are lost to the ether or only show up to moderators of a comm. so the mods might ban them in that comm and the admins not see it. logistics issues. if you message the admins directly theyll purge from site, some respond quicker if you ping them on matrix
No, Sexism is when you ignore and belittle women (like you have here in this thread) and when you get defensive when women mention how aggressive men can be towards them. You are giving off extremely fucked up vibes here, and this is just via text. I guarantee at least one woman has a horror story about you, whether you realise or not. You do not respect women, you're a sexist piece of shit.
As an individual I don't care if 90% of people who share characteristics with me (age, sex, ethnicity, dressing preferences etc) are all proven to be psychotic rapists. I would still be offended personally if strangers judged me.
I understand that the reality of the situation is that women have no choice but to be careful around certain types of strangers even if they don't really know if a person is really dangerous. I'm saying that this reality results in me being stereotyped and looked down upon due to circumstances beyond my control. And that offends me.
I agree I am defensive about myself, because I have never hurt anyone and would 100% feel offended if people were afraid of me without knowledge.
Also your allegations ("I'm ignoring, belittling women", "I'm a rapist", "I abused someone", "I disrespect women", "I'm a sexist piece of shit") are getting pretty unhinged.
Telling that when I say women have horror stories about you, you immediately jump to SA. You gave away a little bit more than you intended I think bud. Sorry your fee-fees got hurt because you hate the idea of being told to not be a sexist piece of shit.