Just in case anyone is wondering how true this is, about 10 years ago, an Australian TV anchor decided to keep wearing the same suit and see how long it took people to notice.
After a year, no one had mentioned it.
That said, I agree with the man's statement that it would overwhelmingly be women who criticized other women for wearing the same clothes.
I wish it was socially acceptable for men to wear the colorful stuff women do on formal occasions. It's almost always black, white, grey or maybe dark blue.
I want things like paisley suits to be considered normal. Why not? It's just a pattern.
I'm not saying it because I want to do it, I'm saying it because I want to see it. Make congress a sea of color rather than a bit here and a bit there.
To quote the immortal Al Bundy: 'don't try to understand women, son. Women understand women, and they HATE them'.
Whatever, so long as you don't stink
As a guy, I definitely don’t give two shits about anyone wearing the same outfit. Heck, I dress like a cartoon character: I buy seven identical shirts, seven identical pants and just wear that until things need replacing.
To an outside observer, it would look like I literally have one outfit that I wear for two months straight. I very rarely switch up a shirt when it’s either too hot or cold, but other than that, I like to keep it really simple.
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That doesn't change anything. The reality is the issue at hand. Is there is a double Standard? Is it very prevalent through out our culture? should it be changed? These are the issues.
Far too often people take any form of feminism to be all encompassing of the most extreme views they've heard, or even that others have claimed without reason. Feminism isn't oppositional to men, it's not even blaming men, just like toxic masculinity isn't about ''men bad'' because it includes problem like ''men are conditioned to repress their emotions which is harmful to men'' and ''men being drafted and not women perpetuates a view that men are disposable, this is a really negative view that's deeply harmful to men''
It's not about who's to blame, who is the enforcer, where did it begin. And not every privilege is a insult to the group that has it. Women do have privileges as well, they are less likely to be suspected of child sexual abuse in professions with children, They receive far less prison time for convictions, they get favored in family court rulings. This doesn't negate all Feminism, nor does it disparage women, these are very borad social realities, that are difficult to change. There are Feminists who have advocates to include women in the draft, there are women who have tried to put forth changes in child rearing to reduce the chance a boy will grow up to be emotionally repressed. It's not about who is to blame, it's about seeing a double standard and working on it.
I don't think I've ever noticed anyone wearing the same outfit multiple times. I couldn't tell you what any of my coworkers are wearing today, because it's been over 10 minutes since I looked away from my screen. I'm assuming people do reuse their clothes though. I know I don't throw them away after wearing them exactly once.
My old boss is an exception - she had a different outfit for every day, and every single one of them looked like it'd taken more consideration to put together than I've ever put into clothing. So when she wore the same thing again sometime later, it was noticeable only because you were already conditioned to expect something new every day. Never heard anyone make a comment about repetition though - only compliments about the styles.
I would honestly love to own multiple suits, but ultimately as someone that works in tech the only times I ever get to wear a suit is a wedding or a funeral. All my friends are married, so that basically leaves a black/dark suit for weddings.
It's the internalized beauty standards
Hahahaha 🤣🤪😜
That is actually spot on. 😂
Men and Women are different.
First, bullshit. Second, there's no way a woman wouldn't wear a simple black cocktail dress twice, even in a row.
I just asked one hundred men. They said no, they don't care. They suggest not wearing anything is better. Also. Did you you gals take the keys? Most men are currently looking for them. We are sure we used them yesterday after work to park the van. C'mon gals! Where the heck are th....found them! The keys where behind everyone's couches. Sorry! Yes we will take out the trash, but we gotta go check with Dave first. He had some stuff he was working on in all of Dave's garages. Rick too, but mostly Dave. We'll be back by 7..mmmkay?
How is that a 'privilege'? I don't know like you but for me the 'privilege' is something above normal, above standard, above majority. A king has a privilege of not paying taxes, everyone must pay them but not him, he has this privilege. A diplomat has a privileges that are above law, like they cannot get fine for speeding. We could say a kid whos parents are billionaires has a (hypothetical) privilige in life where they can get everything they want and family budget isn't affected. That is not normal and only few chosen ones have those privileges.
So back to my question - not being judged by the way you look is not something above normal. That is the standard, that should be a norm. I don't know how we want to call the situation in the post but that's not a privilege. At all. Rant over.
That's still patriarchy.
