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  • About 25 years so far. Recently went to one of my oldest friends' funerals.

    I'm only 45.

  • The way i see it, I went from 2018 to 2021 with no real friends. Sure, I had an irl ttrpg group, but I felt more lonely around them than when I was actually alone.

  • I have never been without friends. There have been a few times when I didn't have any that were close by, but I kept in touch. There is one person who's been a close friend for 45 years now.

    I have noticed that it's gotten much harder to find friends over the last few decades. Our society has changed in ways that make it harder to meet people and harder to get to know them. Online can be a good start but it's very difficult to progress from that.

    Putting yourself in situations where you meet and interact with people, in person, definitely helps, but that's not easy for introverts like me.

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