I’ve been many guys their first gf or first person they dated. It mostly comes down to having a bad self image and terrible tactics when approaching women. After they dated me they were able to date more women because I think I learned them how to behave around them and they probably just gained more confidence because they have more experience.
I take some pride into having turned awkward/incelish men into more normal functioning persons in society.
I’m over it now though, so someone else should take over.
Can you even call yourself a socialist if you are profiting off of the labor of the women who dated your men before you, and not putting in the work yourself?
Tbh I had a great time dating those guys, but I want something more serious now so I became a bit (a lot) more picky.
sincere question: have you ever raised/ trained a puppy? it can be rewarding to teach another creature to act normal & not piss everywhere, but it gets old eventually